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a program (that i didn’t forget)

annie's preschool ends tomorrow.

so sad.
she will miss all the wonderful creative love and joy that
she gets walking in that door 3 times a week.

even though she hides behind me every single day as we go in…
she can't wait to get there…then she hides and gets shy and nervous.

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she participated in half of the 5 songs they sang.
and not the other half.

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and that's O-K.

she will miss her teachers.
so much.
but….she gets to come back next year so we will focus on that.
she will probably talk about it everyday…all summer.

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these are annie's bff's
micah and lizzie.
glued at the hip…tackle each other in hugs…share their snacks…play together constantly.

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after the singing we enjoyed some juice and cookies and playtime at the park.
what a nice way to end the school year.

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thanks kristin…this year has been awesome for annie!
september won't come fast enough.
at least for us anyway.

Kathy - You take the most amazing pictures, really inspiring.

heather lea - seriously the most adorable children! my little brother is 5 (i’m 24..yikes!) and his kindergarten graduation is in two weeks. he keeps insisting that he’s going to stay in kindergarten forever because he loves his teacher and friends so much!

missanne - … i love the views children have.
they know the meaning of true friendships.
🙂 sharing snack, hugs and lots of smiles.

Dawn - I understand how you could forget a program. I only have 2 daughters can’t imagine how you keep up with everyone. My oldest is graduating from high school and there is something every other night it seems. Drive ya crazy but so much fun to be a part of. Hope you all have a good summer.
Dawn

Whitni - This preschool looks like an amazing blessing to have around. Makes me wish I lived in Kansas so I could send my future kids there. Also, you’re blog is so colorful! It makes me soo happy to come over and have a look everyday. Sigh…
-W

kristin - amazing, eh?
yes, september will be good.
thanks for being a part of this joy.

Mary Beth - I need to find a picture of my PrincessLasertron’s preschool show…she STEPPED FORWARD during all the songs.
And then took a bow.
Yep. She was born this way!!!!
Meg, I love your honest life.

Aubrey - Ooh–and she’s wearing her cute rainbow dress–it’s so perfect for the occasion, right?

chas at the wild raspberry - annie and lizzie look like two peas in a pod!
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Joni - Awww….it’s hard to believe it’s the end of the school year already.

Lazy Mom Leslie - Your title cracked me up!

pve - so I guess home schooling is out. he he.

Lori Danelle - So cute! I’m looking forward to when my girls have friends. Right now Charlie, my oldest, plays beside other kids, but she doesn’t really interact a whole lot yet when she plays. I think that aspect of their childhood is one of the parts I’m most looking forward to!
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Darby - Go Annie!
We have that little dress and love it!!

Michelle - My baby girl’s preschool program is tonight. She’s off to kindergarten next year. Sigh.

brooke - i always love whatever annie picks out for the day to wear…her style is awesome!
it is funny how you know they love school but they act like it is just pure torture for you to leave them there…meghan does this to me in the morning…i have to peel her flesh from mine and run…and then when i go to pick her up it takes us ten minutes to say our goodbyes and actually leave…silly silly girls…

Laura - and I just finished my post about how I can not wait for school to end!!!!
I am a crappy mom.

Wendy - Hooray! You made it to something! I hope that you had some juice and cookies as a reward. :o)

Melissa - Annie’s school looks like so much fun! The pictures actually make me miss teaching, but after the day I had I guess it’s to be expected! So glad you were able to make this one! I also have a little one who can be very shy at first. Enjoy the summer fun with Annie!

CherryTreeLane - I love this dress she wears! And she is so happy to be there–you can see it! Delightful!

dawn - This is sort of embarrassing — but I decided to sign my daughter up for some summer “preschool” (field trips to the park, movies, that sort of “preschool”). I love my child to the moon and back (and I AM a stay at home mom) — but she loves preschool — and my sanity is worth pulling together a little extra money for a summer session!

Shannan - Please tell me that you made Annie’s dress – and that you’ll be making more to sell. 🙂
We had Calvin’s program last week, too. He had been singing the songs at home all week, then walked out furiously itching his head with both hands – the truest sign that he is stressed and anxious – and hardly sang at all. Still, I couldn’t take my eyes off of him!

maribeth - as a preschool teacher and mommy, i love your view on children and play. it is rare to find parents that understand the value of a good preschool and a play based curriculum. what a blessing for annie!

amy d - phew, i was starting to think we neighbor girls were gonna have to do a “program intervention” on you 🙂 FYI…8th grade rec is the 20th 😀

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may 10

i wasn't expecting anything because usually things go better with low expectations…at least for me.

craig made an awesome decision to take me, the family and his mother 

to Sugar Sisters for their first ever brunch buffet.

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Sugar Sisters is a small locally owned bakery.

you must go when you are in wichita…on central near oliver.

it is very cute inside…that's what sucked me in…chandeliers, chocolate brown walls and cupcakes.

the food was I.N.C.R.E.D.I.B.L.E.

i don't usually like buffets because they taste like….a buffet.

this was so good…like they knew we were coming and made it just for us.

we had quiche and waffles and scones and the best hash browns i have ever had.

EVER.

i made craig go back and get some on his plate…he agreed.

the food and coffee were fabulous but the kids were wired.

i looked at craig in the middle of the meal and said

"this meal would be perfect if the kids weren't here."

(just being completely honest)

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there was crying because we weren't buying giant cupcakes.

sean picked up his french toast with his hand & announced "this is disgusting!" 

lauren gave me the stink eye ALL year day….i wish i had gotten a picture.

scott kept saying things like "i can't believe you won't let me do this…it's my birthday!"

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BUT it was still good.

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we ate till we were stuffed.

we headed home and i got to take a nap.  

short but sweet.

craig made scott's birthday dinner of lasagna while i frosted his cake.

the younger three set the table all fancy (definition…we used napkins)

we hung a banner…they made chalkboard greetings…we lit candles and played his favorite song.

we tried our best to have a good birthday dinner.

i am not sure if this was accomplised.

but we tried.

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cake and singing.

it was sweet of him to let annie help him blow out his candles.

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a game of Disney's Scene It before bed…scott's team won.

then goodnight.

one hour later he comes into the craft room….."mom…how come you didn't give me my present?'

"OH NO SCOTT! we just forgot i guess!"

duh.

again.

it was only money but still…we forgot!

but so did he.

two events i one day is just too much?  

maybe.

(these posts are getting very long recently….i must have a lot on my mind!)

Sarah - Happy Mother’s Day to one of the best mom’s I “know” (blog knowing counts!)!

abigail - can we get the recipe for the yummy cake? it looks fabulous!

Aubrey - You are the QUEEN of awesome birthday cakes and cool candles for them! I won’t ask where these are found–I’ll actually go and LOOK. I think I need to just open my eyes at the store (I’m so lazy).
Now I’m so hungry for chocolate cake and brunch food that doesn’t taste brunchy.

Jessica - Hi!
I sent a comment not so long ago offering a donation to Cora’s Playground in exchange for scraps of fabric, and I’m thinking my reply got stuck in your spam, I sent it back on May 1st. Sometimes yahoo and gmail don’t play so nice in the sandbox. I am still very interested if you are still willing!
Jessica

JerriR - You looked lovely! That place is too darn cute! I want some cupcakes! Stink eye…well it gets better with age-we’re at 18 and I still get it, but only once in a while. Thanks for keeping it real and I recommend you take a much deserved VACATION day!

Meredith - You crack me up.

Traci - great day meg. even if you did get the stink eye. that cracked me up. ok, i might have cried to if i didn’t get to go home with a giant cupcake.

carissa... brown eyed fox - you bring smiles!!!!!
mothers day AND a birthday! a lot for one day!
especially like you said… when you add in all the normal kid stuff! 🙂
might i say girl… you looked beautiful!
oh AND… i would have eaten til i stuffed myself too! VERY cute place!

Liz - You have the most cheerful blog. I love coming here!
And… YOU HAVE TO GO! You will love Eureka. I promise. Stay at the Crescent Hotel if at all possible. It’s pricey, but so fun. They have champaign brunches on Sunday in the ballroom, rooftop dining. I cant talk about it any more or I’ll be sad I’m home. 🙂

Ellen - I love looking at the pictures you take. You are such a wonderful photographer!

Christy - Meg, I have tears from laughing so hard about the present. The reason your blog is my favorite of all is because you don’t always “ice the cake”. You really keep it real & whether you have 0, 1, or 5 kids we can relate that it isn’t always perfect all of the time. I love that. Some days you also make me wish I still lived in the small town in Missouri I grew up in, just sometimes. 🙂
Thank you for being you & “keeping it real”.

Adrienne - Reading other’s responses, I’m feeling quite redundant!
Who wouldn’t love you. You’re real. You’re funny. You make us feel like we’re normal and still good Moms with our “keeping it real” thoughts you say for us.
And just reading your blog I feel I know you.
Adrienne

Donje - That looks like a great place to celebrate Mother’s Day! Just found your blog. It’s awesome!

Courtney - What a sweet boy to forget about his present. Seriously, some kids are so worried about gifts… you have good kids 🙂

Alyssa - You are too funny!!
Love your blog!
It is really my favorite!!
I just love it!!
Thank you for sharing your life with me.

Trina McNeilly - sounds like a great day!
Happy, belated, mother’s day to you!
xx

Karina - If it weren’t for the text, I would never have guessed from the pictures that your family and your day was less than perfect (I, too, would have loved to see the stink eye, lol!). And your text – lovely, real, and yet poetic – is never, never too long, I could read your blog ALL DAY.
You do seem preoccupied a bit, or harder on yourself lately or something…But I guess a lot of us could say that! Happy belated Mother’s Day! (I have a son with a birthday that often falls on Mother’s Day too, so I can relate – this year his was on Monday, and we still forgot to do everything we had planned to do!)

Sandy - I don’t know if Julia will see this, but your comment made me laugh! Your son’s response to you wanting to go to the beach alone was super funny!! Thanks for sharing 🙂
Meg, I love your blog, your pictures, and most of all your honesty! Blogs that want everyone to think life is perfect make me want to puke.

Mindy Harris - You looked adorable for Mother’s Day.
I want to go to Sugar Sisters; plan to this week!
I love how you do your cakes!

Julia - What a fabulous bakery. We don’t have things like that here (my theory: girls aren’t supposed to eat in SoFla in public). I told my husband and kids that for Mother’s Day I wanted to go to the beach by myself. My son told me “how about if we all go to the beach but we’ll sit 10 ft from you and not talk to you.” We did go to the beach and my husband took the kids on a long walk…without me.

Jess - Don’t worry about your post being long, I could read pages from you. It’s very comforting to know that you are just a real mom. We all have memory lapses(as i like to call them) and our kids are not perfect! Thanks for keeping it real and your great photography is a huge bonus!

sandy toe - This looks like a wonderful place.
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Michelle - Great day and a great post. Glad you shared it. And happy bday to your sweet boy too.

pve - You put into words and pictures exactly how I feel. I love how you look so thrilled to be there. You put on a good show and I like that in a woman and a Mom.
pve

Heather - As always, loved reading your entry today! I shared your site with another mommy friend and told her that one of the things I most appreciate (besides the GREAT photos, fun ideas and the sense that I could be having a cup of coffee and a good chat) is that you are so authentic! You could have posted the beautiful pictures of your day and never told a soul that your cherubs were less than completely cherubic:) Thanks for that!!!
Hope your week is off to a good start!

Christina - I recently forgot to take my son’s lunch to school (we were in a rush in the morning and it’s three houses up, so I was just going to make it and bring it “later”)-my mom and I went to the grocery store with coupons and three days later, I mean, three hours later I realized that I never took Christian his lunch! He seemed okay with it, which that scenario could have gone very differently!
Anyway, I also thought it was funny that yesterday after Sunday School when I picked my two older kids up from their classes, I felt like I was trying to herd a flock of 200 sheep hepped up on amphetamines (whatever that might look like) and I said to someone in passing,”I’m earning my stripes today!” It sounds like you had that kind of a day as well.
I think you sound like such a neat person-I visit your blog regularly. I appreciate the real factor. Have a great week.

Patti - what an awesome looking place…the sign alone would have sucked me in.
those cupcakes looked divine! i’m a complete sucker for a good cupcake. there might have been tears from me too if i didn’t bring one of those home! 🙂

Melissa - Great pics meg! Talby looks so much like you!
Love the blog and tha cake looks yummy!!

Sarah - This was sooo much fun to read! I don’t think that you could be too wordy but I am a little sad that you didn’t get a picture of the “stink” eye. That one made water shoot out of my nose!

Christine - you are very cute, with your forgetfulness and all.
just too many things on your mind….
i get that. 🙂

Trish - yes, I am not a fan of celebrating two things on one day.
we have 5 birthdays in our immediate family within 3 weeks of each other and Christmas and New Year is in there too! CRAZY! Not a big fan… I wish I could spread out the goodness!

Laura - of course, the cupcake shot is my favorite!
and what meal wouldn’t be better withOUT the kids?????

Starnes Fam - Super cute picture of you. Will recommend this place to a friend in Wichita and will go when we visit!

Lorilee - Hi Meg,
Sugar Sisters looks awesome! YOUR cake looks delish! I love the candles.
Blessings,
Lorilee

Amber - What a yummy day! That cake rocks.
Oh, and I *love* your honesty! Keep up the great work 🙂

Mrs. Dunbar - Lil dives are always the best. I would much rather eat at a ‘mom and pop’ owned restaurant than a chain any day. I love how you kept your day real. Very sweet.

ang - This cupcake place looks AWESOME!!!! Love your blog-I check often, so don’t worry about being too wordy.
That birthday cake rocks!! Glad to hear I’m not the only one who forgets presents!!

Donna - Hi again Meg – as my kids would say I am “Creepin” (aka stalking)……I get so excited when you post!!!
I have a question(or two, possibly three): I have the same camera as you………you’e pics are so great. Did you just learn to use it yourself??? Mine are good, but not nearly as nice as yours. Also, who designed your blog – I love your large pictures!
Oh – you are never too wordy – I am always wanting more out of you!!
Your blog is my favorite!!! And I just finished making my craft room – nothing like yours, but totally inspired by YOU. thanks Meg for brighting up this “creeper” days with your blog!!!
Donna

Shannan - 1. I have always loved the sound of Wichita. And I also love the spelling. I need to go there, someday.
2. Cute necklace.
3. Yummy-looking cake.
4. I always request a nap on Mother’s day, too. And most other Sundays…
5. I just posted a blog and thought, Why am I so dang wordy? Why can’t I be succinct, like Meg? Then I came directly here and read this. 🙂 Trust me, compared to some of us, you’re no where near too wordy.

a thorn among roses - great sweetness batman! i love it…and i want to go tothe fab cupcake place! wooo hoo!

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don’t be fooled…

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these pictures may look like it was a great day at our house….
but i don't think it was.
there was a principal's office visit,
a very moody teenager,
a very whiny family,
an argument over playing on a baseball team this summer,
and a super crabby mommy.

the pictures sure don't look like that.
i see a refocus is needed in myself when i look at these.
there are so many good things here…ladybug catching,
flowers for planting,
a repentant child,
hugs and kisses,
sun shining on us bright and warm, 
pizza in the park,
children getting along and playing together as the sun sets.

refocus.

i went to a few garage sales on friday morning with a car full of mamas…that was fun!
and i brought home this HUGE chalkboard from a school (said the home owner).
for FIVE dollars!
i love it so much.
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it is 8 feet by 4 feet!
now i guess i am all set to begin homeschooling, right?

HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA.
i am so funny.

homeschooling and ME will never happen…for my children's sake.
we'd have art all day.
with extra long recess and coffee shop studies.
and long naps after that.
it would resemble School of Rock but with crafts.
a scene like this can only mean one thing at our house…
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there is a birthday coming up.
scott turns 11 tomorrow.
i tried to skip his birthday instead of share mother's day with him but he didn't like that idea.

Lisa - I HAD A CLOSE FRIEND WHO SAID THE SAME THING ABOUT HOME SCHOOLING. SHE ALSO HAD A CHALK BOARD JUST LIKE THE ONE YOU FOUND AT A LAWN SALE. GUESS WHAT SHE ENDED UP DOING? YUP. I WON’T EVEN SAY THE WORD. AND YOU KNOW, ART ALL DAY WITH A COFFEE SHOP BREAK AND A LITTLE SIESTA CAN BE GOOD.
HUGS FROM MAINE

wendy - LOVE that chalkboard! And for only $5? What a steal! And don’t underestimate your potential to home school. We did it for a year and LOVED the heck out of it. The kids are back in school now but that was one of our very favorite experiences of all time! I’ll just leave it at that. 🙂

carissa... brown eyed fox - i wanna go garage sale hunting….. wahhhhh… wahhhh!
way fun… and MY WORD… scoRRRRRRe… that chalkboard!
i can only find them on Ebay… after a million dollars to ship… ha! 🙂
the fun they… and YOU will have with that! neato!
i was grouchier that you… nanny nanny boo boo!
girrrrrrl… !

Elisa - The great thing about school is that they can go away, and you get a chance to miss them, and then they come back. Perfect.

megan - speaking of focusing… what camera and lens did you use for these shots… they are BEAUTIFUL!! makes me want to jump through the screen and into your yard with you!

Heidi Jo the Artist - Great photos! I hope you had nice Mother’s Day and fun celebrating your son’s birthday!
It is crazy to me how many people think they can NOT homeschool. We DO homeschool and I once too was in that mindset that we would NEVER homeschool. But, my husband opened up my eyes to the school system and how sadly broken it really is. My husband is a teacher (yes you read that right!) and sees many things first hand and we wish the school system was different for the sake of this country’s future. I’m sure it could be worse, but we most definitely think it could be better too. And anyone that says they cannot homeschool, I say to them…DO YOUR RESEARCH (on the internet or in books- anything by John Taylor Gatto is great, start with “Dumbing Us Down” which is a great start and an easy read)!
There are many ways of homeschooling besides the traditional textbooks. We personally choose a more relaxing homeschooling environment, “unschooling”, and it works for us thus far. It is amazing to watch your child/ren learn on a day to day basis. I love to see the light bulb go off when my son gets something! I love when my son asks me questions, and if I don’t know the answer we look it up together. I think it is fun to learn and I still consider myself to be a student and I will for the rest of my life. I don’t know everything, and neither does any teacher teaching in a school. You can teach your children so many things that can’t be taught in a classroom and they will get much more one on one attention.
I have days that aren’t perfect too, I think we all have bad days sometimes, but without the bad, I think we wouldn’t appreciate the good. Refocusing is great, I like that! 🙂
Oh and I love your chalkboard find too! I found a really nice LARGE bulletin board for FREE while out and about one day, but I gave it to my husband for his classroom. If I find a big chalkboard or marker board it won’t be leaving our home unless we move! 😉
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Laura - there is no fooling me!! I have learned that behind and in between our beautiful pictures, are the REAL pictures of our every day.
But how great that we have cameras to capture those fleeting moments of happiness, sanity, and creation. Some days, that is all that gets me through.

Lori McDonough - Ok, why have I never discovered your blog before this? You rock…I’ll be back! Have a super day!
Lori

anne - i love how your family twinkles. 🙂

Georgia - Hi Meg,
I was wondering what software you use to make the photos into a collage / montage. I use photoshop, but me and photoshop dont seem to get on very well … lol
Look forward to hearing back from you 🙂
Georgia x

chas at the wild raspberry - glad you found the bright side
🙂
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evan - i feel the same way about homeschooling my kids. school of rock but with crafts. so funny! you are a beautiful mom. i hope your mother’s day was amazing. actually i’m sure it was 🙂

Jerusalem Greer - another reason I am thankful for my blog, when I look back over it, I see so many good things and so few not so good. helps to keep things in perspective!

Staci - I have to re-focus every day it seems 🙂 This moving stuff makes me VERY grumpy and very short with my kiddoes these days 🙁 I know once we get settled (will we EVER?) I won’t feel like yelling so much 🙂 My red stove makes me very happy though 🙂 Hope your Mother’s Day was good and that Scott has a very happy 11th birthday!!!! Thanks again for always keepin’ it real Meg!!!!!

chelsea - beautiful photos and GREAT chalkboard find!

gina - oh “fun” girls’ day of shopping eneded with me carrying a kicking screaming 4 yo out of Target today. But on the good side… breakfast in bed, by the same 4 yo and her sisters and dad, lots of thoughtful and wonderful! presents, the 6 super big mugs I plan to use as bowls at Pier 1 BEFORE said meltdown. 🙂
Love the chalkboard- what a find!!

Shayla - your pictures are so pretty! I love the layout they are in!!
and that chalkboard—for FIVE bucks! what a great steal!!!! :] I hope you enjoy it!!!

Rach - Happy Mother’s Day!! May it be as wonderfully chaotic as every other day with a bundle of kids. 🙂

Amber - so glad i’m not the only mom out there who needs to refocus. happy mother’s day to you!

Leigh - I am with you on the whole situation that is going in your house! My youngest turned 13 today and I have 3, 14 year olds…attitude. I think I will go have a nap now. Hope you have a good mom’s day.

Trish - NO way $5 I need to go garage saling with you… although we’d probably always be racing out of the van trying to find the best deals before the other does… a little competition never hurt 🙂
yes I believe that is what homeschooling would look like for me too. Although I would probably incorporate some internet lessons. Requiring them to have their own laptop and start their own blog 😉 how fun would that be!?
Happy Mother’s Day… thanks for sharing your “mommy” stories with all of us!

Sarah - It’s the “end of school” crabbies…it’s happening at my house too…so don’t despair! Love the pics anyways, deceiving or not…sometimes it’s nice to deceive ourselves!!! 🙂

kat - Wow! That giant chalkboard is a great score indeed! Those are lovely pictures! I often need a reality check as well as sometimes it can be all to easy to get bogged down by the negative details while all the lovely ones dance around the periphery.
I too know what it is like to share celebrations with my children. My anniversary and Olivia’s birthday are the same day and Lauren was scheduled to be born on my birthday until the doctor took mercy and delivered her three days earlier so we could each have our own special day. We still celebrate together anyway and it is special for both of us!
Happy Mother’s Day!!!
P.S. I made your cheesy shells earlier this week and they were totally delish!

Beth - I just have to comment again, on this Mother’s Day morning. I find such meaning in the ability to find blessing among the brokenness, and thank you for putting it to words so the rest of us remember to do that too. I love this story and it reminds me to find the good, look for the blessings, every day:
One day some people came to the master
and asked: How can you be happy
in a world of such impermanence,
where you cannot protect your loved ones
from harm, illness or death?
The master held up a glass and said:
Someone gave me this glass;
It holds my water admirably
and it glistens in the sunlight.
I touch it and it rings!
One day the wind
may blow it off the shelf,
or my elbow
may knock it from the table.
I know this glass is already broken,
so I enjoy it — incredibly.
~Achaan Chah Subato

Ruth - you are a wise lady… and hilarious 🙂
love that picture of talby, the light is incredible.
good luck with the birthday!

Lori Danelle - Pizza at your house too? Little Ceasar’s $5 pizza every Saturday right before we head to church. I think my two year old likes it a whole lot more than I do!
I love your honesty. So many would go with the story the pictures told, but that’s not real life. . .at least not in my house!! Our downs happen more often than we’d like, but the ups make the downs worth fighting through.
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Traci - i love your posts. they are always so honest. beautiful photos meg – it does look like it was a wonderful day. and it was, when you refocused. i need to refocus. i have a very moody teenager here to, yet she is almost 19 so you’d think she would be way over that stage. no such luck. happy mothers day!!

Christina - That is a sweet chalkboard! I wish I could find something like that. Wow.
I love your honesty! Isn’t it funny to look at pictures like that and know how it “really was”? I like to take the moments at the end of the day and reassess, though; it helps with the perspective. Have a wonderful Mother’s Day.

Starnes Fam - Happy Mother’s Day to one crafty mama. You are blessed.

Kate - Seriously. You crack me up. You rock the big blue sky.

Beth - So good to be able to refocus and see the good when things seem to be falling down around you — so healing. Your pictures speak the truth. I also laugh hard when I think of myself and homeschooling. Thank goodness for public school. We share our wedding anniversary with Emma’s birthday. Was always a challenge when she was little, but she’s ok with sharing with us now 🙂
Happy Mother’s day to you and Happy Birthday to Scott!

Jess - My birthday is tomorrow, I don’t look at it as either one of us is missing out. I see it as taking care of two birds with one stone. I’d be with my family anyhow, might as well take care of two things at once!

Jody - ok, i’m falling more in love with you…:-)
my friends also break out into hysterical laughing when my name and homeschooling are mentioned in the same sentence.

Mary - You really spoke the words I’ve been thinking.
Refocus
I’m dealing with a bad case of mommy burnout,
Glad to hear I’m not the only one that has those days

Cate O'Malley - I totally hear you about refocusing. Had a mess of plans today and instead we were all house-bound and both kids were sick. Tomorrow is another day. Love the chalkboard find!

aimy - what is the name of your etsy shop????? 🙂

Melanie - You sure would have had us fooled. Those pictures look so beautiful and we would have never known that you didn’t have a happy household. I hope you have a great Mother’s Day and a good birthday for the birthday boy.

Lori - Thanks for keeping it real! We all need to refocus now and then. My kids are teenagers now, and I look back at pictures when they were little and get all teary-eyed…forgetting the hard days when nothing seemed to go right and I felt like a bad mom. AND I feel much better that other people recognize that homeschooling wouldn’t work for them. I have always said I would love for my children to be homeschooled, just not in my home by me! ha ha. Happy Mother’s Day!

Kelly Anne - Ha! My brother’s birthday is the 10th, as well, so we’ve had to deal with the occasional holiday overlap for a while now (he’ll be 21 tomorrow). Think of it this way: if he’s anything like Casey, he’ll reach an age when birthdays mean a special day AWAY from parents. So that’ll be a treat! :oD

Joni - Thank you for the refocus….don’t we all need that sometimes. On my blog sometimes I feel like I should add the following disclaimers to some of my photos and indicate what real life was like that day!
XOXO
Joni

jamie - Sounds like a Regular old day in the life of many families! Im with you..No Way would this Mom ever be a Home Schooler.. We would Kill each other after a week! Happy Mothers Day.. I always Enjoy your Posts and Pictures are Amazing.. Jamie

Jenny Wenzel - So jealous of the chalkboard…$5??? That is a crazy GREAT deal!

jennymama - you make me laugh. i love it! that’s exactly what our homeschooling would be like! ha! happy mother’s day!!

Angela - Oh, thank goodness someone else knows that she’s not cut out to homeschool! LOL
Great pics. I loved them!

lauren - oh my gosh! my favorite photo is the 2nd row down, the one of your daughter. the lighting is gorgeous and her expression has so much character. love love it.
oh yea, and i do like the city life. but your life sure looks like fun! i am lookin forward to the day that i am back in texas and can sit on the porch and watch the sunset. and when i want to feel the grass in my toes, i just run outside! and when i can actually see all those stars up in the sky at night… sigh.
anyhow. hope you’re having a beautiful and relaxing saturday.

amy - LOVE the giant chalkboard. What a great find!
I’m just curious…when you post photos on your blog in a “collage” like this post, do you have an action or template for that or is it all you?? I love that look!

PamperingBeki - Haha!
My blog post a few minutes ago was very similar to this.
Soooo time to refocus here.
Last week kicked my butt.
I can’t wait for summer.

erica - thank you for the encouragement to refocus. i, too, needed that this week. and i understand you having to share a holiday w/ a kids birthday- my oldest son was born on my anniversary! if something gets skipped, it’s usually our anniversary (to a later date lol)

patricia - No wonder, I come back here.
You are honest, when things are good and even when they are not.
I guess, I am attracted to those photos and then your honesty.
I could use a photographer like you to capture the good.
pve

amy (not corey) - Is Talby playing “Guess the Missing Word,” by any chance? 🙂

Keri - I know what you mean about how pictures can be a bit deceiving. I’m hoping when I’m old and gray I’ll forget the “back story” behind those kind of shots, and just see the happy.
Happy Mother’s Day tomorrow – and b-day to Scott, too!

Kelly - It’s always hard to focus on the good instead of the harder moments. It’s a worthwhile thing to strive for, as I’m sure you know!
My little girl has that rainbow shirt, but in white, it is her favorite shirt and she wears it constantly!

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duh.

it went down like this…..

thursday may 7, 7:20 PM

RING RING 
RING RING

Me:  hello
my Mother-in-Law:  Sooooo…i take it you aren't coming?
Me:   coming to what?
MIL:  5th grade promotion?
Me:   what are you talking about?
MIL:  i am here watching the 5th grade promotion 
       and you aren't here.
Me:  where?
MIL: the kids' school.
Me:  what are you talking about?!
MIL: i talked to craig…i saw it on the school calendar…
      it is half over.
Me:  SCOTT!!  
     ARE YOU SUPPOSED TO BE AT PROMOTION RIGHT NOW?!!!
Scott:  deer in the headlights…frozen…speechless
Me:  UGH!  sorry…do you want to come over?
MIL: yada…yada…yada

click.

i walk outside to craig mowing the lawn.

Me:  did you know about scott's promotion? 
      your mom just called…she's sitting at it!!!
Craig: oh no!  did we miss it?  
        i guess she did say something once.
Me:   Well that's just GREAT! 

Craig:  "i'm not that mom."

craig and i crack up laughing.

all a complete accident on scott's part.
i had honestly not heard or thought one second about it.
i do recall lauren having one of those…but never thought of it for scott.

such a perfect example of what kind of mom i am.
🙂

Lorilee - Hee Hee, My younger son often purposely did NOT inform me of things like that. He didn’t think it was cool to have mom around! Real moms aren’t perfect!
Blessings,
Lorilee

Sara Cameli - This story only makes me love you all the more. 🙂

Holly - I was sitting right in front of your mil, as she looked around in confusion…hee hee hee…it was the best part of my evening!

Sandy - I received an e-mail from my son’s teacher and at the end she asked if I will make it to the banquet. I’ve never received the invitation, Seth hasn’t mentioned it, and I knew nothing about it. My guess is Seth doesn’t want to go or he would have made sure I had it. She was happy to fill me in on the details though so … I guess I’ll be there. My point is – it must not have been a big deal to Scott or he wouldn’t have let you (or Craig) forget. 🙂

Sandy - That’ll be a memory you laugh about for years to come. 🙂

Becky @ Farmgirl Paints - At least you laughed about it! I love that about you.

traci - they have promotions for kindergarden, promotions for fifth grade, promotions for 8th grade, then FINALLY….Graduation!!! If it wasnt a biggy for scott then nothing lost. Sad that your MIL was sitting there waiting but if Scott wasnt sad then no biggy.

Laura - what is a promotion? and you KNOW that you are not alone, right? I missed pizza day, bake sale, and book fair…all in one week. I am just thankful that I fed all four kids this week, not to mention, didn’t lose any of them.

Kelly - Ha ha ha! That’s awesome!

Kate - Seriously. Thank you. Thank you for being honest and making me know that I am not alone in my duh-ness! 🙂

chris - Turns out I had a DUH moment today , I FORGOT TO FEED MY KIDS, I told them I would bring a hot lunch to school at lunch , well I got a call from my dear daughter , she didn’t even have to say a word , I was busy working away at a design plan and making sure I had time to get to another and I completely forgot I needed to bring my children their food , BAD MOTHER … so luckily I was home and drove over and took them for McD’s , even better than the mac and cheese I was going to make , shining moment huh!

Karina - PS – I love your blog, your photos, your house…Happy Mother’s Day – I think you deserve to wear the crown this year for being the most honest, real, and hilarious mom around!

Karina - Love it! And I love Julia’s comment – you both made me snort laughing!! Now, if Scott had been there, it would be different, but he was in a much better place, at home with the two of you. Did your MIL come over? Ha!

Liz Butler - Did your mother in law by any chance take a picture? That would be an awesome layout: Guess what’s missing from Scott’s Promotion Ceremony? Scott!
Yep, it happens to all of us one time or another.

juli Elgin - Hey, don’t sweat it. We are all that kind of mom at one point or another. Heck I left mine at the little league field. I thought his dad had him until I got a call from my husband saying, “Is Sam with you?” “Uh, no.” About that time call waiting kicks in and it is another mom from the team who is standing at the concession stand with him. He was in 6th grade at the time. I’ve raised 3 boys. They don’t tend mention these things. Have a great summer.

Elisa - LOL, know that well!
That’s what happens when you have more than one kid. Or a kid that doesn’t tell you anything, or forgets everything. I have one of those.
I am in Salt Lake City, wanna come see me? I’m bored.

Holly Ivers - You are an excellent mother and your kiddos are so very blessed to have you.
Perhaps God was protecting you from a bad car accident? Perhaps you were meant to stay home? That’s what I told myself when I missed my cousin’s college graduation. Yes, I was being protected! =-) We totally space random things for a reason…..Thank you, Good Lord.

Hannah Cooper - I have NEVER commented here before but I read your blog religiously. I first stumbled upon it through ashleyannphotography. I attend church with ashley (when I’m in the country) and am blessed by such talent around me. Your blog is an inspiration and I seriously hope to be a creative, fun loving mom one day like you so seem to be! After looking at the youtube video below, I had to share this with you. The song is amazing and will make you want to dance. I hope you enjoy!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eoaTl7IcFs8&feature=PlayList&p=999126A3CBAE33DA&index=0

purejoy - ohhh!! a mom just like me!!
did you accept mcdaughter’s college scholarship? it had to be done by may 1
no. did you?
no. i’m outta the loop on that stuff. you’re supposed to keep on top of that!
oh. yeah. well. i didn’t.
well there goes $48000.
relax. i’ll call the school.
whatever. you can’t keep on top of anything. your desk is a mess!
uhhh. thud (head hitting desk)
%^#%&@~* (and other random foul words)
text from mcdaughter later: i accepted 2 wks ago. sheesh. relax.
mother of the year?? huh. maybe next year.

Aubrey - Don’t worry, I’m worse. I’m mean to my kids like a bad baby-sitter. And am hopping mad that I’m having ANOTHER boy when he is clearly supposed to be a girl.

Staci - You ARE a real model of what a mom should be!!!!! If it makes you feel any better…last year I missed Connor’s KINDERGARTEN GRADUATION!!!! I didn’t forget it really…in my mind I had 10:00 and it was at 9:00 🙁 Can you say big.old.loser!!!!! (He didn’t even care…and that is what saddens me the most 🙁 Glad he still loves me! And doesn’t (and won’t) remember it!!!! Just me…beating myself up, even a year later 🙂 I’m glad we can all laugh about it!! Have a WONDERFUL Mother’s Day!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Leigh Ann - Too funny! Thanks for sharing. I one time dropped off my oldest son at Pre~school all dressed up for Halloween. His little friend was waiting at the door for him not dressed up at all. I drove home feeling bad that his Mom forgot about the Party! When I went back to pick Seth up all the other kids came out and none of them had costumes either! I had the wrong day!!Duh! Thankfully Seth didn’t mind at all and he just said he needed to wear a differnt costume for the real party!LOL! Happy Mother’s Day!

Christina - Oh my! I’m so glad someone else does things like this. Laughing here.

Courtney - I LOVE IT.

Christy - That is hilarious. Not sure which part is funnier though, Craig’s mom watching random kids (minus her grandson) graduating 5th garde or you three missing it! That is classic!
I have enough troubl keeping up with one kind & his schedule! 🙂

A pocket full of posies... - SO glad I’m not the ONLY mom….just forgot the snack for soccer…what’s worse…I pretended to be shocked “someone” could forget the snack…(of course that “someone” was ME…I totally disappoint myself! Ha!)
happy Mother’s Day!
many Blessings!

chas at the wild raspberry - Happy Mothers Day!
🙂
Chasity

amy - thanks for keepin it real.
and making me laugh so hard i choked on my coffee a little!
p.s. i still think you’re an awesome mom by the way! 🙂
amy

Ashley - Halarious! I had a moment a few years ago where I …. get ready for this now… lied (can you believe it?)to my kid… This is how the conversation went-
kid-We’re you at the awards assembly?
me- uhhh…. (obviously clueless) ummm.. yes!
Kid- did you see me get the award?
me- of course! I saw you standing up there getting that award, Im so proud!
kid- I didnt see you.
me- thats because I was in the back… it was so crazy I couldn’t get your attention. Im so proud of you, you looked so pretty in (whatever she had on)
kid- oh wasn’t it exciting mom? (all smiles and totally believing me)
I hated to let her down and I hated to lie but I totally forgot! she was thrilled thinking I had been there. I know, I know its wrong… but I did it anyway.
Love your stories Meg!
Ashley

Lori Danelle - Oh No!!! But I’m thrilled that you are laughing about it. Much better story to have in 10 years than the story you would have gotten had you gone. (Right? 🙂 ) At work we were discussing yesterday what the point of all these random graduations is, anyway. Just make sure you don’t miss his senior graduation!
Also, be looking for an email from me. . . I have stuff to share!
http://loridanelle.blogspot.com

jerusalem G - that is brilliant. seriously. a lot like me completely missing picture day. I am so not that mom either.

Shannon - This is sooo something that would happen to me! I forget so many things from day to dayl; dont’ feel bad. You didn’t even know about it! I think you’re a wonderful mom.

a thorn among roses - hilarious! i have done it…and i’ve been “that mom”. oh well, hug him, smile and give him some love and he’ll be just fine. you, on the other hand, that’s another story! have hubs pamper you a little since he was “that dad”

Lori - You are a wonderful mom! My kids are 17 and almost 14 and I know that I have missed recognition assemblies for both of them. Not to mention an appointment with the speech therapist and her county boss (I was painting!). And I only have 2 kids! So you have plenty of company.

Naomi Williams - Yesterday was that day for me…I invited a friend (someone from church I am trying to get to know better!) to bring her daughter to my daughter’s “bring a friend to ballet” day…I told her 2 or 3 times, “see you on Thursday!”
Thursday comes and goes…HOURS after I was supposed to be there, I get a tentative call from this wonderful woman, “Is your family all right? Is there something I can do? When you never showed up and then I never heard, I just thought…”
Nope…it just wasn’t in my head! I just COMPLETELY spaced the whole thing!
These things happen…
But then again, I have been bringing my daughter to ballet every week all school year…YOU didn’t even know about this ceremony! You have an excuse!
Love your blog…LOVED reading this!

Traci - you are a great mom. if your son is anything like mine. he won’t want to go to any of that stuff. so it probably won’t be the first of his ceremonies that you will be missing. boys are so different than girls. they would rather be at home playing then at the school for anything else after the bell rings.

mom - Oh Meg, that is too much! Obviously Scott didn’t care if he went. SO all’s good. Now, Lauren’s is the 20th, right??

Michelle - Oh, I’m laughing out loud. Not at you though. With you. If you’re laughing too, that is. 🙂

Jess - you are so real. that’s why i love to read your blog. no one is perfect. i forget so many things….i worry about how bad i’ll be when i really am old!!!!

Crystal - You are a perfectly wonderful mom! 🙂 Totally one of my daily inspiration. 🙂 And yours is the only other blog my husband reads. 🙂

Julia - “that mom”, the perfect mom is a figment of our imagination. “that mom” that we see at every school function, is in charge of the PTA, organizes drivers for school field trips, sends out emails for the end of the year teacher gift (just got mine)….that mom is secretly staggering into the closet of her bedroom sobbing her eyes out because she really needs to have a nervous breakdown but she doesn’t have the time.

chris - Yikes , no guilt given there , that sounds so like something I would miss , you’re not alone

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london

just a few pictures of my sweetie pie neighbor baby.

she is so easy to photograph…so smiley and those sparkly blue eyes.

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i told you she was sweet.

Tonya - beautiful!
love your post above about refocus…I do that daily…more like hourly 🙂
Good to be able to capture all the good things to show us where the focus needs to be!
xoxo
Tonya

a thorn among roses - the curls and the eyelashes are to die for! love them!

pve - looks like she just belongs in the garden. little blossom.
pve

Jamie - The second picture is my favorite. It just makes me melt! Such a cutie!

Ashley Ann - Great shots…she is adorable in all that green outside goodness. Also – WOW I made Meg’s list of “happy things”?! Great way to end a night 🙂

Lori - You’re not kidding. She’s precious!

Lorilee - You inspire me to work on my photography skills!
Blessings,
Lorilee

Sara - That is the cutest name ever. Love it.

Jennifer From Texas - What a sweetie !
I am a new blogger, looking for some help naming my blog.please see
http://dailynonsense-realopinions.blogspot.com/

Amber - so i’ve been a “follower” or blog stalker, as I prefer to call it, for several months now. my question is how in the world do you get the amazingly large photo as a header? is that something that only typepad blogs can do?

pambuller - she’s gorgeous. just like her momma. 🙂 (sorry russ, i think she gets all the cuteness from jenn)

Kelly - OH! She’s a cutie! Kelly

Mindy Harris - I was going to ask if you made her shirt then I saw the comment you posted. She is such a precious girl!
Also, you’ve inspired me to make some gifst for my mom, mother-in-law, and g’ma this Mother’s Day. Little painted pots with marigolds planted in them. It’s been really fun/therapeutic. I’ll post pics after mom’s day!

Laura - very sweet…wish you could come by tomorrow to photograph my youngest who turns THREE!
DId you study photography, or did God give you an unfair amount of creative talent when you were born??

Lori Danelle - So cute!!
I’m tellin’ you! Upstairs photo studio. Much warmer than outdoor photos in the snow of winter. . .Keeps you doing this all year long!
http://loridanelle.blogspot.com

Shelly H. (in Overland Park, KS) - Great photos!
I wish I could get my little to sit still long enough to get some good shots like those 😉

alicia kristine - I “follow” your blog and love it! (always thought “follow” sounded stalkerish) anyway oh woman who owns the best house ever… I will be sweetly jealous until I am living in a character myself! That house should have a name! Anyway, I’m a SAHM in Texas who has been inspired by you! I have now started (last night) my typepad blog for just ME! I have a kid blog;)… thanks for showing us your best! Question: I’m waiting for supports’ response but does typepad let you type on your pics like you did on the 3rd floor post? If not what software are you using? I am the college graduate who took computer science twice… not too in the know about tech stuff! Also, what kind of camera do you use? Ciao~

Lyndsey - Hi! I’m a follower of your blog and love your pictures! I’m looking for someone to take one year pics of my daughter. Do you run a photography business or just do it on the side for friends and family? BTW…we live in Wichita.

meg duerksen - Her mommy made her shirt. Jenn is much more talented than me on her sewing machine. she can make real quilts and bags AND even knows how to read patterns!! 🙂

CherryTreeLane - Ooooh. my uterus has pangs.

Keri - Oh, that curly hair!!

chas at the wild raspberry - that hair! so sweet.
love the b&w ones best…gorgeous.

Ruth - i see pom-pom trim and zig zag stitch so i’m also wondering if you made that cute shirt! what a gorgeous girly.

Allikayes Mama - Did you make her shirt?? One more reason I would love to be your neighbor!!

Sam M. - That would be native Kansan. For the record, I’m not a state living oh so far away. Proofreading, smoofreading.

Sam M. - Can I just say that your blog is such a breath of fresh air. I’m a native Kansas living oh so far away for the past two years. I just discovered your blog and love it.
Love from England

Jess - She’s a cutie pie! Did you make her shirt?

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another field trip.

i haven't been on a field trip in many  many years…and this year i went on TWO.

i realized long ago that i am not a field trip kind of mom.
i am also not a PTO kind of mom.
or a room mom or a fundraiser president kind of mom.

it's just not me.

i can't even go to meetings at church.
i can't stand that kind of stuff…i can't sit still…i can't listen.
i would skip all kids' programs if i could.
but i can't.

what was i talking about…oh yes…the second field trip.
i went on sean's field trip this year too.
he looked right at me and asked me to go.
"please mom…i really want you to…we'll have lots of fun."

how can i say no to that?

as they were walking to the the bus his teacher said "sean said you'd be riding with him"
"HA! sorry charlie…no way.  see ya there!"
the bus?   that's taking it too far.  
i rode with my friend….and then we were late because we were searching for starbucks.

that's the kind of mom i am.

the field trip was actually really good.
Exploration Place is a very cool place.
i have never been since we'd moved here so i was happy to go for only $3.50.

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it was the perfect place for sean.
lots of hands on but also lots of of thinking involved.
and a paper airplane exhibit?   
that's heaven for sean.

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they are inside a wind machine.
there is a big weather area…tornados and wind…erosion…
my favorite part was the real tornado made of smoke (?) that the kids could try to break up.

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there was a maze exhibit…another challenge sean enjoys.

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this room was an entire miniature town. 
we stayed in here the longest…studying the details.
it must have taken a thousand hours to build this.
each little person is like half an inch tall?
that merry-go-round was maybe 3 inches?  
AMAZING!
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the giant bubble maker is always fun.
he stuck with it until it worked.
other kids ran up and tried it once or twice and then left but he stayed till he got it.
that is just SO sean.

i'm glad i went.
doesn't mean i will go again….but i AM glad i went this time.
it's nice to feel wanted by your kids.
because i am now aware of quickly it can change.
but maybe…just maybe…for sean it won't change?
he'll always want me to go places with him?

hey…i can dream.
🙂

Becky @ Farmgirl Paints - You captured the day perfectly. Looked like so much fun.

Heather - I love your honesty. Oh, hell, I think I just love you. 😉

melissa @ the inspired room - I’m not that kind of mom either. No wonder I like you. I am going on a field trip though in a couple of weeks. Luckily, I can drive my own car. I am definitely not a ride in the back of the bus field because I am the room mom kind of mom. 🙂

pambuller - what a great day!
2 field trips this year…maybe PTO president next year??? 🙂 (i’m laughing out loud here)

Jeana - i’m not that kinda mom either. i just don’t enjoy stuff like that. and meetings?! i dread them, our son has ARD meetings anytime anything changes with him…you would think i would be used to them by now, but no. anyways, love the blog and pics as usual!

Ryanne Toland - Whoa, awesome pics. One day your children will appreciate all of the wonderful memories you have captured.

lynn bray - Thank you, thank you, thank you for your honesty! I am not that mom- nor was I that kid– never stuck with group activities, especially those that involved meetings (think: Girl Scouts). Looks like you had a fun time though- gives me hope for when the field trips start in the next few years. My oldest is in kindergarten so we don’t do many field trips yet, although we did go see a performance of Pinnocchio in December. That story seriously creeps me, but I went because she wanted me to… not a great time, but not unbearable either. 🙂 Have a good day!

jerusalem G - I am really bad at all that stuff too – glad to know I am not alone! The Starbucks thing cracks me up – totally would happen to me too. I bet Sean will want you to do lots of things with him always. Very cool.

princesslasertron - I wanted to build tiny cities when I grew up

ang - You nailed it!!! I’ve been a teacher for 15 years and mom for 11. I totally dread field trips and PTO meetings. When I would attend field trips as a “mom”, I ended up with the rowdiest kids in the class. I’m glad to hear I’m not alone!!! This place does look awesome. Is it in Wichita?

Lazy Mom Leslie - I’ve done two field trips this year too. I had to ride on the bus for the one this week. I’m glad I went, but I don’t like them either.

Jody - OK, I lurk here often and have heard only wonderful things from Pam about you. This particular blog is giving me so much freedom.
Thank you. 🙂 I with you on this one.

Trish - looks like fun. i giggled when you said you were late cause of Starbucks 🙂 That would be me too!

MGF - nice to spend time with just one child- full attention

marci - I agree, field trips aren’t my cup of tea either. And I’m a teacher, so that’s really bad. LOL!

Kate - I am so, so, so glad I am not the only mom like that. Whew. And not the only one obsessed w/ Starbucks! Love your pics – rock on.

Lisa - I TOO HATED FIELD TRIPS, SO I HOME SCHOOLED INSTEAD.
A LITTLE DRAMATIC I KNOW.
HUGS FROM MAINE

Sharri - Hello Megan, I am new to your blog and enjoy it very much. Does Sean want to fly airplanes?

Ruth - You are a wonderful mother going through with that!! The giant bubble thing does look awesome though…
I just posted a froggy video and it made me think of your header! Is that a sign I spend too much time online?!
Ah… “whatever” 🙂

michelle - Hi Meg…I am writing to you here b/c I couldn’t find where your email was. I had purchased (at least I think I paid) a rainbow shirt (5t) for Cora’s playground. I know you just got some things sent out but I have been gone for a week and haven’t received it. I just wanted to make sure I DID pay for it. I would not put it past myself to mean to and then not. I was buying up difft things for Cora and thought I had them all paid for…if not please let me know. Thanks so much~and I love your work!!Michelle

Sarah - You are funny! If someone asks me to do something at school, I say, “Only if you absolutely promise me there will be NO meetings about it.” I can’t stand girls + meetings. I don’t have time for it, and I can get it done without gabbing on and on about it forever. Field trips remind me of warm fruit punch and hot bologna sandwiches on a bus…which = barf. But looks like you had fun…what a neat place.

Lori Danelle - at least you’re honest with yourself! silly to set expectations for yourself that you really don’t want to obtain and then feel bad when you don’t. 🙂
Also, I think that a field trip definitely requires Starbuck’s, even if it does cause you to be late. Sacrifices must be made!!
http://loridanelle.blogspot.com

3 Peas in a Pod - So funny you blogged about this. I went on a kindergarten field trip yesterday. The place was called Imagine That and it was great. I was responsible for my son and 3 other boys. 2 of the boys were a set of twins who looked identical and I kept messing up their names. I’m not so sure I’m the field trip kind of mom either. I was glad I went but it was madness for 3 hours and the bus trip? Yea glad you missed that. Full of 45 excited 5-6 year olds. Glad I usually have an excuse of younger siblings and can’t normally do things like this. Teachers are grossly underpaid!!

AnNicole@OurSuburbanCottage - Thank you!!! I thought something was wrong with me. Now I know that there are moms out there that I admire (um…YOU!) who feel the same way I do! Phew…

sassafrasanne - Looks like a blast! And I bet Sean was so glad to have you there with him.
Sometimes the fieldtrips can be a drag, but that place looks like alot of fun!
🙂 glad you could enjoy it together!
**hoping this doesn’t get spammified**

sandy toe - I loved field trips as a teacher but not so much as a parent!
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Staci - I hope your Sean always wants you there too 🙂

Jen Christians - Although, I stalk your blog, I don’t always comment, and not because I don’t want to either… just that kind of person, it takes time you know… 🙂 the REASON I HAD to comment on this one is simply put, I wanted to be THAT kind of mom, PTO, fundraiser, feild trip, you know what I mean… but recently found out that I am not THAT kind of mom either. SO happy for your honesty… REALLY! you made my day… I think secretly there are more moms like us though! OH, and since I am commenting and taking the time to do so, I thought I would tell you that I LOVE your blog, LOVE your pictures, LOVE your idea…ALL of it truly you make my day…

Angela Conklin - I use to think my youngest would build us a log cabin and we would all live in it together…because that’s what he always told us. He’s married. Has a house of his own. 🙁 Go on field trips.

Jennifer From Texas - Thanks for being truthful about the whole field trip, program and PTO thing. I feel the same and feel so guilty about it. I am new reader and love your honesty !!

Kelly - This place looks SO cool! Kelly

Grace - Glad to know there are other moms out there who are just like me! I prefer to be left alone to my creativity and enjoy my children at home. Not at school, not on field trips. However, I do love bringing in baked goods for the class for special occasions!

Michele - I’m not that mom either….even though I was a first grade teacher back in the day before kids….awesome you were looking for starbucks-now I don’t feel so guilty. I am not alone. Hey, check your spam folder…there may be an email from me…about dogs.
micheleball@comcast.net

Laura - I introduced myself to Annie’s teacher by saying, “Hi, I am Laura, Annie’s mom, and I am the uninvolved parent”. True story.
LOVE that you were late looking for Starbucks.

Mrs. Jones - I’m that kind of mom, too. I *hate* meetings, event planning, buses and all that stuff.
And you’re right, they grow up and move on way too fast. And then no more field trips. 🙁
~Heather

Wendy - That place looks like a blast! I love stuff like that. I’d go to places like that before I had a kiddo and people would look at me like I was weird. Yeah, it’s good to have a little one to go with now. Congrats on having a son who wants you around! That’s the best.

adrienne - That place looks awesome! I’m the same way though, the whole PTV and school party thing, not for me. Good to know I’m not alone 🙂

Mandi - This place seems so awesome…
And to give you some hope, I am 22 and I have ALWAYS wanted my mom around!

Mindy Harris - I’ve been to Exploration Place only a couple of times, but each time I spend awhile with the miniature train set/town. I absolutely LOVE it.
How precious that your Sean wanted you there.

amy (not corey) - Did you see Carlos and Dana’s house in the little miniature town? It’s there!

Brooke - that place looks amazing! and it looks like sean had an awesome time…and i loved that he asked you to go…so cute.

chas at the wild raspberry - what a cool place!
i live for field trips {but i’m a homeschooling mom so the noise level can’t compare}
🙂
chasity

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did you know….

that a lot times when i reply to your comments

it goes into your SPAM folder?

it does.
🙂

don't want you to think i am that rude.

i can't reply to all of you…but often when you ask me a question i answer.
but then hear from you again because you think i didn't answer.

AND…to the commenter named j.o.…your mail always comes back to me.
i know you are local and i try to answer your comments.
but it says the email is wrong.
hmmmm….

Mrs. Jones - Ok, this never occurred to me, so I checked my SPAM folder and found a bunch of comments to my blog that I never saw. :-0
Thanks for the tip.
Heather

j.o. - oops! that was an old email address that just kept getting filled in automatically for me, so i went with it. i didn’t necessarily expect responses, but you are so great for responding!! if you still have the emails, you can forward them to the address i leave this comment with. i absolutely never wondered why i hadn’t heard from you — hearing from you would just be an extra bonus!!

chas at the wild raspberry - what are you hanging out with the spammers and hackers for?!
get outta there!
chas

Jamie - Can you give me the scoop on your photography? I’m a local wanting to get pictures done. Thanks!

Sandy - I’m with Trish – when I received an e-mail from you I felt like a celebrity was e-mailing me! Well, actually, she was. Thanks for being YOU and for being who you are!
I don’t know if I’ve mentioned this before, but I have dreams about you and your family. Sunday night it was so clear and vivid and your husband, kids, everyone looked just like they really do. You looked a little different because your hair was a little lighter (light brown) than it is in your pictures. But, your house was the same…it was so cool to visit with you and your family. 🙂 ha ha I remember I kept thinking to myself, ‘how on earth does she do all that she does and with a large family her house stays so put together’?! I know you have the laundry piles, etc, but still your house is incredibly cool (in and out of my dreams!)! Your family was very friendly and welcoming in my dream 🙂 I didn’t get to meet Lauren though, she was out with friends (or maybe she was playing find the teenager, I’m not sure) 🙂
Sandy
Troy, OH

a thorn among roses - so cute! and i get questions sometimes that i can’t reply to because there’s no email set up and that makes me sad. 🙁

Jules - Hi Meg,
I very rarely comment, but I read your blog regularly – it brightens up my work day and your photos are always gorgeous!
Hope you’re having a fun Wednesday!

kasey - I guess i will go check my spam folder…..

pve - whatever… still love you and your posts. your photos and days look fab from here, spam and all.

Trish - I’ve gotten your comments as well 🙂 I feel like someone famous has just emailed me… I feel special! Thanks 🙂

Christine - yes, i too appreciate how you respond to a comment or two that i have made.
that all takes time out of your day…and i never expect one.
i hope people aren’t harping on you!

callie grayson - when you comment, I always receive them:)
I may not always comment, but I always read. Your blog makes me smile:)
Have a wonderful evening.

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