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i love fall.

this weekend was full of fall goodness.
the leaves finally changed.
the weather changed.
it was so nice to be outside and enjoy it.

the three youngest carved pumpkins with me while craig and the older two were gone.
we started with hot chocolate and homemade whipped cream.

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then we got busy with the dirty work.
pumpkins are stinky.
but i am quick….i cleaned out two for lauren and scott if they want to carve one later too.
then helped annie and tably with theirs.
sean cleaned it himself.

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ewwwww!!!!

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we have them draw the face and then i do the cutting.

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i love it….
but i am glad we only have to do it once a year.

and i love seeing them all lit up.

fall is my favorite.

Mary - I have a post coming on Oct 29th showing grown-up children carving pumpkins. Hopefullly, the tradition will live on and on for your little ones as well.
http://cornersofmylife.blogspot.com/

Caitlin - I hate pumpkin guts, but I do love the roasted seeds! This year I found Mr. Potato Head-esque accessories for my pumpkin, so I don’t have to carve it. He’s a pirate. 🙂

jenni@talkinghairdryer - I love that your little one still has a chocolate and cream mustache while she’s cleaning out the pumpkin.

Shelley - i just adore your life !

carissa... brown eyed fox - fall is my fave TOO!
yes indeedy!
and would you believe… we JUST had snow falling from the sky… just a bit ago! :O)

Lisa - Love this time of year too! We are carving this weekend, or maybe I am carving, lol…with only one teen left in the house we’ll see how that turns out 😉

Valerie - Oh such fun to carve pumpkins. Looks like it was very fun!

mel - Fall rules. Best season ever.
October rules. Best month ever.
I can’t wait to carve our pumpkins (Friday night!!)
There is nothing better than homemade whipped cream. YUM!
Looked like you guys had fun 🙂

linda@limein the coconut - Oh I remember those days with my four little ones carving scooping! Now I’m lucky to get one little one from the four!

Rach - I have to agree with you… Fall is my favorite too and not just because I am an October baby. I just think it smells better and it makes me want to be outside and it is orange and beautiful and I am starting to realize that I really need to live somewhere that actually gets a Fall! For now I will enjoy Fall through your posts so keep it coming.

karen - the squirrels got to 2 out of the 3 pumpkins…totally devoured!!
kinda funny!

Crystal - Looks like you all had loads of fun!! Fall is my favorite time of year too. We are going to carve pumpkins tomorrow night! We are so excited. I enjoy your blog so much.

Suzanne - Looks like fun! We usually wait until the weekend of Halloween otherwise, the deer come up to the front porch and eat them. At least I think its deer! Now I’m SCARED!
Happy Halloween!
Suzanne

julia - I LOVE that last picture!
So jealous that you can drink hot chocolate and not have to turn down the a/c (like I’ve been having to do).

Courtney Walsh - I can’t believe I have never carved pumpkins with my kids!! I think this year I need to change that!!

Tanya @ Life in 3D - I did a cute pumpkin craft today with my toddlers. Take note they ARE 1 and 3…so it’s not glamorous..BUT they had a lot of fun 🙂 Older kids could probably do some really cool things with the idea.
I love Fall too!
http://dreamsdiapersanddilemmas.blogspot.com/2010/10/make-it-monday-pickle-jar-jack-o.html

Heather - so fun! i can’t wait to carve ours. we have to wait until the day of though otherwise ours get all nasty from the az heat. have a happy day!!

Karen Gerstenberger - Love seeing the photos of your beautiful family enjoying an autumn tradition together. Your sunflower craft (below) looks awesome, and the chalkboard/chore chart/inspirational quote is so cheerful!

Julie Weaver - We’ve got a pumpkin waiting to be carved with the help of the husband. I love the classic Jack-O-Lantern!
I also love Fall!

Dawn - I love this time of the year too. I can’t wait to carve our pumpkins. Looks like the kids loved it too.

janet - So happy to see you and many others are keeping that tradition going. We are empty-nesters too, but we’ve also still carved pumpkins. Partly for me, but all those little trick or treaters who show up at the door too.
I imagine I will still carve them as long as I am able.
oh we got the cheap pumpkin carving knives, they are kid safe, and mom safe too.

crystal beutler - I LOVE carving pumpkins. We didn’t do it this year which makes me really sad. They die in about 2 days here, which makes me even sadder. I can’t wait to see your kids’ costumes!!

jen smith - a little FYI to make your carving a little easier…we bought the ‘my safe cutter’ knives from pampered chef. they are $3.50 and by far the best knives we have EVER used to carve pumpkins. we take them to our carving gatherings and have to fight everyone to use our own knives! with these knives the kids can carve their own and i don’t have to worry about them hurting themselves. it’s fabulous!
http://www.pamperedchef.com/ordering/prod_details.tpc?prodId=9761&words=kids

Kate @ Songs Kate Sang - Fall is so beautiful. The colors are amazing, aren’t they?!

Casey - I love Fall too! I just wish here in FL we actually HAD Fall. I still have my air conditioner running. Supposed to be about 85 today!! YUCK!

Gekakel - Fall is my favourite too; I love your post!

Julie - Whipped cream? Legit.
Pumpkin guts? Creepy.
Happy kids? Totally worth it.
But the pumpkin guts. EWWWWWWWWWW.
I am the degutter here too. No likey.

Lisa - Can I come to your house? I want some of that hot chocolate! 🙂

Dana@Bungalow'56 - I always envy those who celebrate halloween in warmer climates. We have had our first snowfall already, although it has melted, so I’m fairly certain trick or treating will be in winter coats and winter boots… in the dark. Our pumpkins were carved yesterday too, but we did it indoors : )
Dana

*LuLu* - Cute Pumpkins!
*LuLu*

Jennifer De Los Santos - Looks like fun. When we went to buy a pumpkin to carve, Kate insisted on getting a watermelon instead. She’s so stubborn. We’ll see how watermelon carving goes 🙂

Sugar Mama - I make my husband clean out the guts. I shouldn’t say “make”, but he nicely volunteers to clean out the guts because he doesn’t want to watch me dry heave for half an hour.
We still don’t have our pumpkins, guess I better get to that!

Laura Phelps - we were supposed to carve yesterday
too busy
but with good stuff
Halloween party at my parents
football game
I am loving this Fall stuff…last year in LA we went to the pumpkin patch in 90 degree weather!
This is so much better
🙂

Staci - We carved our’s two weeks ago bc I just couldn’t wait any longer….they have rotted completely now ;( I’m just not up for cleaning two more out again 🙁 Sooooo, we are just going to paint and bedazzle two more 🙂 I agree….Fall is the best….football and pumpkins and hot chocolate…DOESN’T get any better than that 😉 Well, except when the Sooners lose to Missouri ;( boooohoooo! But at least I’m not a Longhorn 🙁 Pooooooooooor Texas!

pam - Our nest is empty but this is making me want to carve one….hmmm, something really different…easy but different. Hope your week is grand!

Penny - Great pumpkins. This reminds me of when our girls used to do the pumpkins. My husband was the helper with that tradition. I always took them to the apple orchard with my Mom and we got the pumpkins. Then hubby was the carver while I prepared the seeds for roasting. Miss those days! Guess I will wait for grandchildren!

Holly - This is my favorite time of the year! I just love those funny toothless grins!

Gemma - Love it!! Yummy hot chocolates and carving pumpkins…great stuff!!!
Gemma x

visart-dali.com - How very cute! I wish we had that tradition

Keri ~ Forever Folding Laundry - Mine too.
October is the best month.
Do you guys roast the seeds?
I love that.
This year I saw a recipe for cinnamon & sugar seeds that I’m going to try.
Love Annie’s whipped cream mustache! 🙂

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craft thursday #13

i have a big file of crafts i think my kids would like but today i found this craft and we did it.
i found davinie through the crafty crow.   (can i just say how much i ADORE the crafty crow?!!)

well….first we tried a pumpkin craft that did not go well.
too hard for the girls.
there was crying….and then i yelled…because crafts are supposed to be fun!!!
“THERE”S NO CRYING IN CRAFTING!!”
ha.

so i said “what about this one?”  and pointed to the photo on my computer.
and the girls said “ooooohhhhh.  yes!”

we changed gears and started again.

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all smiles.
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while they painted their plates i traced the petals.
i just made a quick template out of some cardboard (from a granola bar box)

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the girls wanted colorful centers to their sunflowers….

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sean’s was brown….like a REAL sunflower….of course.

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talby and sean used the glue gun.
annie used the school glue.
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and then we were done.
it was a pretty fast craft considering we didn’t mean to do it in the first place.

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i was kind of bummed i didn’t get to make one.
they needed me more….cutting petals and such.

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we hung them all on the giant chalkboard so i get to look at them everyday.
yay.

Debt Advice - This blog is really very nice. I love this art and also love the sunflowers and love the chalk board. It looking so impressive.

Daisy Cottage - I just love you Meg.
xo,
Kim

Robin Sampson - That chalkboard is homeschool dream!! Where did you get it? Great raft, great colors. I made some Bible lapbooks and file folder games you might like. You can download at
http://heartofwisdom.com/homeschool/?cat=201

wendy b. - OMG! I love that chalk board! Do you change your verse each week?

Lisa - OVER THE TOP CHALK BOARD LOVE GOING ON RIGHT HERE!!!
HUGS FROM MAINE

carissa... brown eyed fox - sensational sunflowers yall!
my girlies would love that!
and that orange CHAIR!!!!!!!! :O)

Emily - Today I needed to see the verse on the chalkboard. Thanks.

crystal beutler - LOVE that giant chalk board. I’m so making one of those. The sun flowers turned out way cute!
Hey, have you ever made indians and pilgrims out of walnut shells? I will have to send you a picture. They are fun for Thanksgiving. We glue them on place cards and give everyone at the Thanksgiving table an indian name. You have to guess which name is yours when you sit down to eat. My kids love it. We also make turkeys out of tulle and pipecleaners and fill them with M&Ms it set at everyone’s place setting. Do you do that? If not, let me know and I will send you a picture. Your kids would love making them. 🙂

Kate @ Songs Kate Sang - Oh, these are great! BTW ~ I really love the ‘chore list’. I need to get that done. It would make evenings go so much smoother around our house…

Shar - How much fun these look. Also, the chalk board is so cool. Love the chore list. What wonderful fun you have with your children!

Danielle - That chalk board is great! We made the eye sees you from the Family Fun website over the weekend. the kids could have done them all day! Brian even made more than one. We used tea lights but Braeden said he overheard one of the parents in charge of the fall party say they were going to hang them on Christmas lights. So much FUN!

Dana@Strawberrytart! - I love your giant chalk board!!! Love Love Love!!!

Dana@Bungalow'56 - I haven’t seen your big chalkboard before. I’m so glad you showed it as I’ve been wanting to do almost a whole wall and I wasn’t sure if it would work. The craft was great too : )
Dana

Lisa - Very cute!

nora - Cute craft! Kinda keeps summer around a tad longer 🙂
This is probably a lame question, but do you do with the crafts after awhile? Do you keep a portfolio for each kid? Do you send them to other family members? Just wondering…

Alicia - I SO want a giant chalkboard just like that in my house!! Or even a chalkboard wall like you have in your craft room/studio. SO COOL!

Julie - Love the sunflowers and love the chalk board! You’re a great mom, Meg! Your kids are blessed!

Susan - My boys are in their 20’s and 30’s and i still have all the craft stuff that they made.Do you keep yours and where?

Cassi - Thanks so much for the kind words and link love for The Crafty Crow! I *love* how your sunflowers came out and I’m so happy you were able to find a project to fit the day 🙂

Cari - Love! Definitely going to do this with my girls! Got a question, though…Did you do fun stuff like this with Lauren when she was little? I know I had some, ummm, “issues” I was working through when mine were little. And that makes me sad that I missed out, ya know? Wait. Was this more of a private email question? Probably. I’ll stop now. Happy crafting! 🙂

Heather - they look so fun on your ginormous chalkboard, which i am completely coveting by the way! it’s fantastic.

Jaime @ Queen of the Creek - Very nice! I always love your craft thursday’s…
The kids did a great job with this one!!

Lorie - I have loved looking at all your crafts over the summer! What do you end up doing with them all? I also LOVE the giant chalkboard. Wish I had room for one!

Tracy - Such a great craft! And I had to LOL completely at the “there’s no crying in crafts” – HA! :o)

Terresa Wellborn - Love that craft! We have paper plates on hand, now to find a fabulous giant chalk board! 🙂

shauna reed - You are a treasure. I Wantaa do these!

julia - Great sunflowers! I love your chore chart and verse. Somehow the chores don’t look like work so much as fun when they are put up there! Maybe the kids feel differently though 🙂

Chris H - I know scissors are a skill that is encouraged, but if you’re the one relegated to doing all the cutting out, may I suggest my favorite tool? A Cricut would make really quick work of cutting all of those leaves! I just used mine this week to cut stencils for a couple of cute folk-y signs for my home.
I teach 3 year old class of preschool girls, and I’m always excited when a new craft post comes up on your blog– it’s handy for using at home with my own boys too! Thanks!

Elizabeth - Those are so great. I am wondering what you do with all of these crafts, where you put them, for how long and then what?

Becky @ Farmgirl Paints - Love it…colorful and sunflowery. What could be better. And no tears. That’s a very good thing:)

Amanda Fuentes - Very cute! I need to store this idea away for this winter when we need sunshine and flowers!
My girls made “baby ghosties” this week as a craft, they turned out cute! I blogged about it today matter of fact, if you want to see! 🙂

*LuLu* - I Love The Rainbow Colors!
*LuLu*

Gemma - Lovely!!!
Gemma x

Layla - Absolutely delightful!
I love them- and I love your blog.
Can’t wait to read all your archives!
🙂
Layla

Julie Weaver - I really love reading your blog. I love looking at the pictures, and reading about your wonderful (yet real) family. I even used one of your Craft Thursday crafts for my daughter’s birthday party. And listed a few more at my mom’s group yesterday when they were asking for fun ideas for kids.

Penny - They are wonderful sunflowers! I have to admit I love “craftycrow”, too, and my kids are 23, 20 and 16. Your craft Thursdays remind me of the club my two older daughters had with a group of their friends. They would all come to our house on Mondays after school. We would do crafts, have a snack and then they would all play for a bit till their parents came to pick them up. Once they were a little older we started taking field trips and having camp outs. It was much like Girls Scouts, without having to sell cookies! 🙂 A great bunch of girls. Just last week I ran into one of the older girls and she gave me a hug and said, “Can we have sunshine club!!” Great memories.

Melanie - Very cute craft!

Debby - This is a great idea! I think both my girls will love it. My almost three year old should even be able to do it with a little help. Thank you!! Love your blog!!

Beth @ Dirty Laundry - Thanks for saying you yelled. It’s supposed to be fun! Why are you not having fun? Why are you fighting with your brother THIS IS SUPPOSED TO BE FUN! Sometimes I yell too, good to know I’m not the only one! Beautiful sunflowers!

amac - Super cute craft! It’s fun to see the differences in your kids’ personalities being expressed through what they are making! You have a beautiful family, and I just adore your blog 🙂

se7en - Those are stunning!!! But what’s not to love via the Crafty Crow!!! I also feel let down when I don’t get to play and do their craft along side them!!! I really consider it to me my play time too!!!

amanda - I love that Sean has such firm ideas about how his crafts should look and how everything is ‘just so’. He totally reminds me of my oldest little boy.
Yay for craft thursday!

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the best way to spend a morning.

Matthew

this guy never even opened his eyes for entire photo session.
he was one week old.
and smelled fabulous.

best job ever.

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i have very unexciting plans today that include running….laundry….and cleaning out pumpkin guts.

hope your day is AWESOME!

tami - Love the fabric choice, so precious!!!

-jilly - oh! a week old? i love them when they’re like that! also, who makes the bike fabric?

Tammy - This is just the cutest picture Ever! TFS.

Lisa - That picture made my heart ache a little! The newborn stage is so special and goes so quickly. (sigh) I love how they curl up in a ball as if they were still in utero! I love my kids at each of their current ages, but man, do I miss holding a brand new baby. 🙂

nora - i HAD to come back and look at this picture again! he’s sooooo new!!! love his newborn hair!

Crystal - Love the pic!! The colors of the fabrics are amazing. I got to do laundry & clean out pumpkin guts today too! It was the first pumpkin I’ve ever carved, so it was fun for me & my son to have a “first” together! I am so glad I took today off work to spend with him during his fall break…..I need every Friday off! Hope you had a great day!

Valerie - LOVE BABIES!

nora - swaddled babies are the best!!

Laura Phelps - that’s it
I need a baby

edie - will i EVER stop wanting another baby?
beautiful morning indeed 🙂

laura - this made me happy all over again that i have a little one in my belly:). thank you, thank you!

Sharla - I love those bicycles!! Any chance on finding out if this is material that was purchased at a fabric shop?!

julia - Great picture! I’m taking a two week old on Monday – freaked out! I’m not good at newborns!

Staci - ohsocute 😉

Denise - Too sweet! I hope you have a wonderful day too!

Amanda - sweeeet!
how do you make the corners rounded on your photos? love it!!
happy friday. pumpkin guts=gooey ooey.

april@gingerbreadgirl - OOOOHHHH the smell….I remember that…..I miss that. Have a great day too!!!!

Dana @ Bungalow 56 - About the pumpkin guts, just a question, does anyone elses hands get irritated from the innards? Inquiring minds would like to know? So sorry about the laundry Megan, my condolences are with you.
Dana

Courtney Walsh - oh.my.gosh

Michelle Whitlow - oh.my.goodness. what a cutie!!! I can’t believe I’ll have one of those in less than 8 mos 🙂

Mary - Oh Meg, he is DREAMY!
Happy pumpkin gut cleaning! ~ smile ~
Mary

Jami - I love the blanket!!!!! Where did she get it I need one for my next baby. I love your blog sometimes it helps me through my day………

Kate B. - Precious!

No.17 CherryTreeLane - While I think this child is the cutest EVER….I kinda am focused on the cute polka dot blanket.
And the fact that I’m going to have a tiny tot in like 5 weeks. AYAYAYAYAY!

sharron - he is a doll…what a wonderful photo!
blessings for a wonderful day!

Lucylu ~ - He is so cute Meg so ya how many times did you kiss that baby? Soooooo Cute

Julianne Brimner - Ahh the new baby smell…how many times did you kiss that sweet little forehead?

Gemma @ Musings of a gem - Hi Meg!! Lovely!!!!
Hope you have a great weekend!!
Gemma x

Stephanie - That bike material made my heart skip.
I have a feeling my children will be covered in bike clothes (when we have kids) since my husband is a cyclist.
I love this.

Becky @ Farmgirl Paints - Ohhhh just precious. i can almost smell him. happy chore day:)

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thoughts on staying connected.

i have had several people ask me how craig and i stay "connected".
 
i asked craig what he thought and we discussed it for awhile.

so…..i will give you my answers but please be sure to know that i am not saying we are perfect.
i am not saying we have all the answers. 
i am not saying we have it all figured out.

but this is what is working for us:

1.  we make time to be together.
     alone.
     no kids.
     pretty often.
     sometimes it's going out to dinner….sometimes it's overnight….sometimes it's a whole weekend.
     once it was a whole week and we both would say it was the best week of our entire lives.
     i am serious.
     most times it's after the kids are in bed and we are watching our favorite shows together or a movie.
     that counts.
     (netflix is so good for in-home dates)
     our relationship comes first….above the kids…above every activity we could get involved in…FIRST.
     it's the top priority.

2.  we treat each other with respect.….we are thoughtful, kind, loving, encouraging & patient.
     we both try not to say anything hurtful to each other.
     we do not criticize each other in front of our children….and try not to at any time.
     we compliment and thank each other for even the small stuff…as often as possible.
     "this dinner was great babe"  or  "thanks so much for bringing down the laundry"  etc. 

3.  we are on the same team with our parenting.
     the kids don't get one answer from me and a different answer from him.
     trust me they try.
     they try to ask for things when the other parent isn't around but we have decided to answer with
     "i will talk to dad" or "i will talk to mom about it"  before we give our answers.
     of course not about everything….but bigger things like sleep overs or dances or money kinds of things.

4.  we laugh together A LOT.
     life is funny….so we laugh at stuff all the time.
     who wants to go through life being serious or angry all the time?
     we are constantly cracking each other up.

5.  we have trusted our marriage to God.  
     He has control of everything…we give our marriage to HIM.
     He created the whole world…He can handle us….He knows.
     He has plans for us and a future.
     God gave us a guide for how to love each other in the bible….how to be a wife…how to be a husband.

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that is what works for us….right now….in this season of life.
we still fight…sometimes.
we still disappoint each other…occasionally.
we are two flawed people trying our best to love each other in an imperfect world.

it's not always easy but it is always worth it.
 
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good books on marriage:

For Women Only by Shaunti Feldman

The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman

The Power of the Praying Wife by Stormie Omartian

Enhancing Your Marriage bible study guide by Judy Rossi 
   (i really enjoyed this one!)

if you have other book suggestions please feel free to share a favorite book in the comments.

Jenn A. - Love this post. “For Women Only” is a wee little book that completely changed my understanding of my husband. It is a powerful one. Thanks for being honest-it means a lot to read about the real deal.

Kate @ Songs Kate Sang - There is a beautiful book called A Severe Mercy by Sheldon Van Aucken. It talks about building a hedge between your marriage and the rest of the world… true story… tragic… amazing… beautiful.

pam - I loved all the books mentioned. How is that?
My favorite though – Sheet Music – by Kevin Leman. I think every couple getting married should receive this for a wedding gift. It will eliminate much struggle.
Eric would say hands down this marriage series by John Piper – http://www.desiringgod.org/resource-library/series-index/marriage-christ-and-covenant-one-flesh-for-the-glory-of-god – was life changing. It was the first time he had heard this approach. All the books previously by other authors were ineffective to him because they were too much about feelings or “you’re in control…self help”. They were more centered on what we can change about ourselves. But the Piper series takes the focus off of us and gave the glory to God.
You and Craig rock! I’ve learned a lot from both of you!

Tara - Love this post…I say yes and AMEN to all of it!
we’ve read those same books…loved them all…

Amac - Thanks for this post! I love your blog! I wanted to chime in on book suggestions and say that “Creative Counterpart” by Linda Dillow has been a very helpful book for me. It has lots of advice on how to be the wife God intends for us to be to our husbands. I love it’s practicality.

Amber - Created to be his Help Meet. I’ll admit the author made me mad at first. And I still can’t agree with everything she writes. But overall, a great read. Changed my attitude.

Michele - Thanks for sharing this. Simple and straightforward. My husband and I have been married for eight years, and I’d like to think some of the same things you listed are what have helped us have a good marriage. You know, after eight years of marriage he’s still the person I want to hang out with the most. We have fun together and genuinely like each other. Of course, we love each other, but I think he’s a really cool person, too. The last line is my favorite. God gave us a guide on how to be a husband and wife…the Bible. Amen!!!

Debby Graber - Men Are Like Waffles; Women Are Like Spaghetti. Great book! One couple (who you know well) say it saved their marriage – not sure if they were joking or not, but we have used it with our different young marrieds groups.

Kjeldredkanoza - Meg, you are a highlight of my day! Your family is beautiful and ALIVE! 🙂 Happy belated 35th – 35 was a hard one for me for some odd reason but that lasted like 2 seconds and then I forged on! I love your relationship with your babes – love your sense of style etc etc etc (I could really gush forever). On this post about how you keep things alive – and this is a bit personal, but how do you keep thins ALIVE, if you know what I mean – sometimes I feel so spent at the end of the day and harried that that being ALIVE (;-)) is the last thing I want (I work full-time for attorneys (love/hate relationship with them but it is my profession) and have a 9 year old and 3 teen step children that are very much a part of our lives. I just feel like I’m letting my husband down. Heck, I’m letting me down – I want a sliver back of our days gone by. 🙂 Oh, and if you wouldn’t mind posting some of your favorite holiday crafts. I so want to get that started with my kids. Thanks!

Shelley - ok..i thought it was about time I stop stalking your blog and leave a comment. I just adore your blog and its in my top 3 favorites. I dont know what I love the best…your passion for Christ..your passion for your family..or your passion for color and decorating. i just adore your blog…i wish you would post like 3 a day..haha. Be blessed my friend

Melanie - This is a great list. My husband and I are like that. We still laugh together (after 19 yrs.) We enjoy being together, I greet him at the door each night, and we are just kind to each other. We like each other and I think that that is very important.

Brooke - Love and Respect is an amazing book.
Someone may have said it already. But it talks about how men receive love through RESPECT. Where as women receive LOVE through LOVE (romance, kind things, etc.). Men need to feel RESPECTED much more than they need to feel loved by their spouse. This was a new feeling for me. Because if you asked me, I would say I need to feel loved above respected. Very interesting.
PS. I love all your thoughts on marriage. I agree. I love that you put each other first. I LOVE the book “Five love languages” ….very insightful. I feel like it’s important to realize there are always new things to learn about your spouse 🙂

elisa - The Proper Care And Feeding Of Marriage…..life changing.
I’ve been married 27 years and I wish I would have read it way back in the day. It would have helped tremendously.
Great post…..we all need strong families like yours in todays society.

Sarah@Clover Lane - This is SO beautiful! Better than any kind of lovey dovey thing I’ve ever read…it’s real and honest, and totally RIGHT.

Tanya @ Life in 3D - This is a great post, thanks…for realz 🙂

Courtney Henson - Okay, I totally printed out what you wrote to show my husband AND to hang it on my chalkboard in my kitchen…I think I need a daily reminder! Thanks for the great advice…stuff we all know but don’t always live by…

Lindsey@ Piecefully Home - Such a nice, encouraging post. Thanks for sharing that, I’d also say the book Sacred Marriage is fantastic. I borrowed it from the library, but I think I NEED to own it.

mandy friend - Yay Meg! God is so good. Thanks for the testimony, I’d reccommend Love and Respect as well!

Ingrid Blanchette - lose this post…thank you for sharing! i’m married to my best friend and he is truly wonderful…but we’re both human and fall short. we’ve been married for 2 amazing years and have many many years ahead of us. but in the 2 years we have endured much pain. lost 2 babies – one ectopic and the most recent when i was 6 months pregnant. i lost my job when recession hit and we’ve also moved (to a beautiful new house which we love) but moving is still stressors! through all this…we come together, pray together and remind one another that we’re on the same team. we’re currently reading ‘How We Love’ discovering your love style by Yerkovich! It’s much like 5 love languages but goes deeper to what is rooted in us from our childhood. How my past hurts work with his…it’s good and I’d suggest it to anybody! Thanks again for your post! Love your blog…

Andria - Meg,
I have been married almost 20 years. I think the single best you gave is to treat each other with respect and kindness. It is amazing to me how many married people talk to each other in a way they wouldn’t talk to anybody else. Saying please, thank you, thanking each other for the small things, and not criticizing in front of others is HUGE!!!! Thanks girl!!!!

Amie - I’ve been together with my husband for 10 years this Dec. and married for 5 years this past May. We have 3 kids. 12 year old Ready-Made from my husbands previous relationship, a 3 year old and a 17 month old. I love how you said “you put each other first- above the kids-” For a lot of couples I know they think this is horrible- How could you put your kids second? Ghastly! But it’s so true! Without the love, support, connection from each other- we wouldn’t be the best for our family. Laughter, and a partner in crime are essential to a lasting relationship.
Love your site, your colors, your wit… Amie

Jen - I LOVE it, and I say DITTO… On Nov 10th my hubby and I will be married {20} TWENTY years… We married the day after I turned 16 {he was 19} I have been with him since I was 14 years old and my parents believed my heart and LOVE for him and after MUCH prayer agreed to allow me to marry… We waited a few years before starting our family, after all I need to graduate from high school… hahaha, I am even more in love with him today… and “they” said it wouldn’t last… HA

Julie - I second For Women Only ~ great book! #5 is the most important for us (we don’t do as well with the other 4), but we have always believed that the 3rd person in our relationship ~ Christ ~ was the glue to our marriage. Just had an interesting conversation with my sister about how we discover holiness through marriage ~ thus Holy Marriage.

julia - good post.
lunch (no kids!) is my favorite time together.

shauna - good book ideas!
i love Love and War by the Eldredges and Love and Respect by Dr. Emmerson Eggerichs.
both are great.
I think Love and Respect is a bit more of a masculine perspective on how to change your marriage.
And Love and War is a bit more about inspiring the heart and a bit more feminine.
thanks for sharing, Meg.

Shoppin4Sophia - Thank you for the reaffirmation of everything God intended marriage to be. I have been trying to live the Fruits of the Spirit as a wife and mother – not always successfully – but I’ve been trying. And you know what…..I see a change in me, in my marriage, in the way I parent my child. God has given us the compass, the direction manual in the Bible for all parts of our lives! That is so AMAZING to me. Thank you for this blog post today.

Whitni - I am getting married in May and I am currently reading the five love languages. We’ve only been together for three years, so obviously the love hasn’t lost its sparkle yet, but any relationship could always use a revival. This book has helped me to think about what he needs from me instead of what I need from him. It’s so awesome, our relationship has definitely matured. We have a long way to go, but I’m glad you mentioned those other books because I want to work as hard as I have to to beat the statistics of 50% of all marriages ending in divorce.

Sugar Mama - You hit a good one… trusting your marriage to God. That’s all we can do is trust sometimes. I once talked to a lady at my church that had been married for years (to the same man I should add) and she told me that not every day will be sunshine and rainbows. Some days she looks at her husband and doesn’t know how they stayed married for so long, but more of the days she looks at him and knows that’s who she wants to be with for forever.
And knowing that you aren’t perfect and things don’t have to be perfect is SO important!

Nina Diane - wow Meg….that was like reading a page out of my marriage! Johnny and I have been married for 31 years and believe me, all 31 have been fantastic! And I credit that to the very same things you listed on your blog!!

rebecca - mmmm. good advice for a young married girl! my hubz and i joke about how we are just like rihanna and eminiem’s song where they describe their relationship as “a tornado meets a volcano”! 🙂 we try to lessen it to “a strong wind meets a soft bubbling of lava”
really have been meaning to read power of a praying wife for quite sometime now… thanks!

Juli - I haven’t read the 4th book. I will have to check that out. I agree with another post mentioning “Love and Respect”.
You can pratically SEE in your photos these things lived out. Like making each other laugh…I’ve seen photos where y’all do that!
I think a big key point is not to compare your marriage to others, too. I have struggled with that in our 16 yrs. I look at a friend’s husband and wonder why he comes home & play with the children for hours in the backyard. I’ve wonder with another family how they find the money to budget for a Disney trip each year when all of ours goes into savings! Also, my husband is very smart and his brain is always working. He has a very strong need to exercise that muscle so he is currently going back to school for yet another Master’s degree. On top of his FT & very demanding job, he doesn’t have a lot of time left for us. I have to let him do that. I’ve haven’t seen him happier in a long time since he started back. He comes alive when he can use that brain!
Each family looks different. We have an excellent marriage but our relationship looks very little like yours. My husband would never be jumping into the pool from the trampoline (he’d say that was dangerous) he’d never be silly (just not him) and I can’t remember the last time we had a “date”. However, he makes me laugh, he loves me, he wants nothing but the best for me & the kids and works so hard to give it to us at the expense of himself. I wouldn’t have him any other way! Not comparing has been a hard lesson. I think we all have a tendency to do that but it is not productive.

Becky @ Farmgirl Paints - thanks for sharing that meg. it seems at this age i’m noticing more and more friends calling it quits with their marriages. just little tips like this can really make someone stop and think…to try a little harder. we pretty much share the exact same philosophy with our marriage.

Rachel - Oh my gosh – I could have totally written this because I loved every single point you made! 🙂
Thanks for the suggestions for marriage books – I have been looking for recommended ones!

Tammy - Great advice!
We really got a lot out of the book Love & War by John and Stacy Eldridge

Sara - I love what you said about spending time together.My hubby and I like coffee dates and “netflix” dates rock!!!!!

Deanna - Love and Rect by Eggreich (sp?). Very very helpful book! 🙂

Mindy Harris - Thanks for touching on this subject. As a mom I am very focused on providing a solid beginning for my babies, and oftentimes my marriage to Shawn falls by the wayside.
Fortunately, we still think each other is hilarious and cool. So that’s something! Ha….We are looking forward to a date this Saturday night!

Sarah S. - Thanks for sharing! My husband and I try to do these too. Respect and consideration are so important in marriage! A book that was really helpful in our marriage was Gary Chapman’s “Five Languages of Apology.” It actually really helps in any type of relationship!

se7en - Fabulous post!!! I have had a similar one lurking in the back of my mind – but I would rather leave it up to the experts!!! We love Shaunti Feldman too… though I never thought I would, she was right on in everything!!!

heather - I love that you shared this…such a great reminder for all of us. Looking forward to my anniversary getaway this weekend, minus 4 kids! Woohoo!

Elaine - The best thing we can give our kids is the model of a loving marriage, after all, home is where their story begins. I would be lying if I said that after 20 years of marriage, hubby doesn’t get on my nerves 🙂 Or that I have not failed many many times when I have not treated him with the respect he needs.. I can only do it with God’s help… which He always gives when I ask!
Another good read is His Needs, Her Needs by William F Harley Jr. A classic. His needs are sexual fulfillment, recreational companionship, an attractive spouse, domestic support and admiration. Her needs are affection, conversation, honesty, financial support, and family commitment. Are we opposites or what???!!!

Flower Patch Farmgirl - LUV this. Amen. And bring on the no-kids weekend.

Diane - you are right on with all of your advice. We have been married 27 years and everything you said is true.

Phoenix_Rising - With a full heart, I have to say I LOVE YOU BOTH. No, I don’t know you IRL. Doesn’t matter. I love you guys. I love your honesty. You are refreshing, so truthful and wonderful and magnificent.

Lisa - Sounds like you have this marriage thing pretty figured out, it’s nice to hear. I am divorced, but I can still appreciate a good marriage, it gives me a little faith that there are happy couples out there……

RLG - Respect is a BIG one for us. And laughter. Great post, Meg.
LOVE your Blue Lily picture. We had our pic session on Monday. Wendy and Tyler are AWESOME. I was laughing so hard, I think I’ll probably look like a donkey in EVERY picture. xoxo

Gemma - Hi Meg!
Great advice. I’m still young & not married but these tips are always good to keep in mind…especially alone time!!
Gemma x

Laura Phelps - 🙂
thanks

Lindsay - Sacred Marriage by Gary Thomas. My husband and I can be fighting and I can be soooo mad and once I pick up this book and even read one page, I feel like all I want to do is love him. He does a good job of incorporating scripture in and really focusing his book on that. It’s VERY good.

Katie - Thanks for being real. We have enjoyed some of the books mentioned and also When Sinners Say I Do by Dave Harvey (talks about mercy and grace). Also we have what we call “in dates”. We usually get take out and eat together when our little children are in bed…a good time to talk and connect!

Jill - Great post! And I totally agree about the Five Love Languages being an awesome book to read. My husband and I read it and so many things became so obvious to us about how we needed to be treating each other, it completely changed our marriage and really helps us meet each others needs so much more effectively now. Thanks!!

Sara @ It's Good to be Queen - i love this, we do all these too.

Suzann - Wonderful advice.
I struggle here, so I appreciate this post.

Holly - Sometimes I look at my husband and I love him so fiercely it hurts. Marriage is not always easy, we are so different. I try to learn his ways, appreciate his ways and he does the same for me. I love his familiar face, his familiar hand in mine.

becky @ oursweetpeas - Love and Respect was another powerful book for our marriage. I am blanking on the author.
I find it scary that even one of my 3 yr olds will say “but Dad said yes”. You gotta love that sin nature. 🙂 Yikes!

cecilia - Thanks for the tips, and the reminders. I think sometimes we get so caught up in “being parents ” that we lose sight of the fact that we are still a couple… We also dont have many options for sitters except to pay for one and that can be costly nowadays. Thanks again, this is something I will try to keep in mind!

Tracy - Aww…. I love these. Our kids are both almost 17 years old now so my husband and I are actually getting to start spending a lot more of our time together – which has been so nice for a change. We have always taken time for “us” such as every other year we would take a “us” vacation and the following year it would be a “family” vacation. It was really hard on us when the kids were young like yours because after the 2nd day we would both be missing them and wanting to get back home to them something terribly. Now, we really enjoy our “quiet” time. Thanks for the book suggestions, I am going to look into those! :o)xoxoxo

Kat - Thanks for the timely reminder that my husband and I need to make more time to be together as a couple.
It is really tricky with 4 young children and not much of a support network for childminding.
I think we have spent the last two years just surviving sleep deprivation and juggling 4 kids.
Lucky we can love and laugh together lots too, even if we have only been on one date this year.
You sound like you have a great marriage.

Nikki - Excellent tips. I agree, you need to spend time together… alone. My husbands work schedule is flexible, we go out for morning tea or lunch most days.
Find a hobby to share…we recently got a double kyak and have alot of fun paddling up our local canals.
Great marriages take work!

pam - We have always encouraged young couples with kids to put God first but then be the best “couple” you can be and you will then be the best parents for your kids. Some things are so simple…but do take that commitment to follow through.

Yolanda - I love this post, thanks for sharing. “Sacred Marriage” by Gary Thomas is another great resource.

Valerie @ Chateau A La Mode - Thanks for the tips on keeping a strong marriage. It’s so important especially in today’s society to make marriage a priority and WORK at it. You do have to make a conscience decision to keep your marriage together. Thanks Meg for keeping it real.

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new shoes.

i was on the look out for flats.
it's getting too chilly for the flip flops i have been sporting for 4 months straight.

i went to all the places i usually go….no shoes to be found…that i liked.
there are definitely plenty of ugly shoes out there. 

i was walking through the mall and saw Payless...started to walk past but thought to give it one more try.
the last three times i have gone in there it was just a bunch of nothing!

15 minutes later….
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i found what i was looking for.
score.
my day was made.

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these were very cute too…..

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but i had done my damage.
another day.

shoes are happy.
no matter how much you weigh….how your hair looks….if you are having a bad day….
shoes are happy.

at least i think so.

Melissa - what cute shoes…i have to go check them out!

Whitney - I couldn’t agree more! I love shoes! And I love your blog! I had to mention you in my last post, since you inspired me to write about shoes!

elisa - Holy Crap I love those shoes1!

Andie - Love. I’m totally linking you up to SHOESday.

Kate @ Songs Kate Sang - I agree 100%! My feet are always cute.

Mindy Harris - awww…man! those are some awesome shoes…i love payless. now it’s my turn to go do some damage!
thanks for your blog comment yesterday; i was thrilled!

vonda - I have such a hard time letting the flip flops go too. I usually go from flip flops to some sort of ugg boot. You have excellent taste in shoes and you always make me smile, even though life can sometimes be very hard. If I only have time for one blog in the morning it is definitely yours.

Tanya @ Life in 3D - Okay…you’re right…I’ve GOT TO let the flip flops go too.
I even wore them this morning to do groceries and I only have one foot with polished toes and the other ones are bare and ugly..BUT…
I still slipped those polka dot flippers on and thought nothing of it…I hate socks so much though :p
Cute shoes! Payless really is the luck of the draw…this time was lucky :o)

Margo - You have excellent taste in shoes! I have the black pair, the leopard print pair and the gray rosette pair! They are so comfy!!

Kelsey - check out TOMS! (www.toms.com)

Sixty Fifth Avenue - I can totally relate! I’m sad to see my flip flops go, they are so easy. I will be checking these out, thanks!

LibraryGirl62 - I saw a stat today that said the average woman will spend $25,000 on shoes in her lifetime-personally, I aim for above average 🙂

jodi @ back40life - if only my 34 year old feet weren’t so in love with cushy shoes {sigh} what’s a girl to do??? definitely some super cute ones! love it!

Tracy - Ahhh… I LOVE those shoes! The grey ones are definitely very dreamy! :o) xoxoxo

Flower Patch Farmgirl - Those grey felt ones at the very end are swoony!

Janie Fox - A to the men! I love them all Payless I am on my way 🙂

Aimee - I have the second pair, the brown ones, but they hurt my feet, specifically my toes. I have wide feet though. Thanks mom!

patti - i couldn’t agree more…and this is why i was so heart-broken when my boots got delivered from old navy today and they look hideous on me! i’m not tall enough and they are hitting me in a bad spot. even my 5 year old told me she thought the boots would look better on someone else. 🙁

Lucylu ~ - Soooooooooooo Cute!!!
*LuLu*

emily anderson - shoes are happy…yes they are.

Heather - The gray wedges that you got are PERFECTION!!! I need those! Now all I have to do is find a Payless, as they are scarce here. Thanks for the heads-up. 🙂

Tanya H - LOVE the red ones! Nearly got them last month but I had to go slightly more practical with our winters… Shoes ARE happy! 🙂

the domestic fringe - As long as they’re comfortable, they’re happy! You found some cute ones.
-FringeGirl

Rebekah - Lovely, one and all. I’m a Payless girl, too.

Staci - Oh rats 🙁 I soooo didn’t need to see those last two pics….LOVE THEM!!!!! I will probably be making a trip to Payless now 🙂 I bought some kelley green All-Star Converse last week….and you are right….they just make you happy!!!!!!!

Karen - Amen, sister? Shoes never let me down 🙂

april@gingerbreadgirl - I love shoes as well….cant wait to see what you wear them with!!!! Have a great day!!! I put you in my blog post today….:)

Valerie - Wow what cuties you found, and at Payless??? I’m going too 🙂

melissa - I’m on a hunt for new shoes too!!! I love all of your choices!! I think I’ll head to Payless before I go to the name brand shoe stores…

Diana - OooOOooooh, I love the very first ones – the pink… and the very last gray with the flower. Lovely. I can’t wear anything but flats (because of the balance issues with my migraines). Haven’t been to Payless in ages, will have to check it out again!
Your neighborhood is sure colorful with all the leaves coming down! Pretty! ♥

Suzanne - Adorable! thanks for sharing – it’s always hard for me to transition out of the flip flops into fall/winter shoes – I think I’ll head over to Payless.

Elise - There is nothing better in life than old friends and new shoes. 🙂 That’s my motto!

Keri - Love all of them!!! Payless has had some cute shoes lately!

Heather - Middle pair that you bought. Have them. Love them. Enjoy your new shoes!

Phoenix_Rising - THANK YOU!!! I need these as well! At least ONE pair. My winter heels kill my feet after their summer breather in flops.

Cherish Stockdale - wow those are great! looks like I need to make a trip to payless! 🙂

Beth - I would never in a million years looked at AE for shoes – because I did not know they had them! Those are all adorable, and probably comfortable too. Thanks for sharing this great find!

Nicole Q. - Oh you make me want to jump in my car and head to Payless right now. If I lived in a city I’d be there!!!! I’ve been looking for red flats for a year now – ever since my mom got the cutest pair – she wears way cuter shoes than me!!! Love the red ones you found!!! I’ve been with ya on the Payless thing – I had about given up on them. Your post just may send them some visitors!!!

Lee Ann - Do you mind if we have the same shoes? 🙂 I’m not a big shopper so when I see something I love, and someone tells me exactly where to get it…..well that just makes me happy 🙂

Laura Phelps - I am running off to get my hair cut right now
shoot
should have just planned to go shoe shopping…
tomorrow maybe
those grey heels are FABULOUS

Heather - i love the ones you picked up. i heart shoes too and am desperate for some new ones. through each pregnancy my feet grew a little and now i’m having the hardest time finding shoes that fit by big old feet, but you just reminded me that payless carries big foot sized shoes so there’s still hope for me. 🙂 i think a trip to the mall is in the cards for us today. i love those gray ones!

Jaime @ Queen of the Creek - Really cute score, Meg!
You should move to AZ – we were flip-flops all year ’round.
Even with jeans and hoodies in January! 😀
Especially with jeans and hoodies in January… lol… =)

Jenn Shock - Amen sister! Shoes always look good on your feet, no matter what’s going on from the ankles up 🙂

Amanda - I was so sad when the Payless by WM left town. 🙁
I have the brown ones! I got them last season, and bought the black ones just like them recently. I have considered buying all of the above shoes. Good taste. 🙂

Sugar Mama - Are they comfy? That’s my biggest issue… and also I have narrow feet which makes find flats that stay on difficult. Those styles are super cute! And all I wear are flats (and slippers).

Becky @ Farmgirl Paints - Well thank you for sharing that. I would love some cute little flats too, but they hurt my feet. I’ll have to check out Payless. I bet you look super cute.

Tam - Oh, I agree! I LOVE shoes. I never think to check payless. I love all shoes aboe 🙂

shannon - LOVE all your new shoes! They look great! And you are so right….no matter how I feel about my weight, my hair, my looks…shoes and purses…always make me feel good! 😀

Tracy - Love the shoes! I just went to Payless last weekend to get my daughter some shoes…we walked out with matching Ugg style boots (for a lot cheaper) and I got the cutest pair of plaid flats with a ruffle! Plus we scored on BOGO…not bad.
I may not be the skinniest girl around, I may not have the most sylish clothes around, but man my shoes rock!
If you have a Sears near you, I usually can find some cute shoes there too…I have great luck getting funky heels on sale there all the time.

Beth - Great finds! I, too, find Payless hit or miss. But you they were a BIG hit this time. Cute, cute, cute!

Sara @ It's Good to be Queen - oooh, i love them! i will be stopping by payless today. thanks!

carrie - Shoes are the best!!! Check out Target too…they have lots of super cute ones too!! I love the look of flats but just feel like I can’t pull them off for some reason. I’m weird!!!

kristi rediske - I love them-I am going to go try some on and get me some-thanks for the posting-I don’t think my husband will thankyou for the posting though-:)

Real shoe lover - I have those grey ones.
OUCH.
That is why they are only $10.

heidi @ wonder woman wannabe - oh. adorable. I HEART flats!

donna - i LOVE payless – I usually always find something super cute there – and so inexpensive. Just got a 20% off coupon in the mail yesterday too! I love those grey flannel heels – oh I think I will get them for 20% off :)….thanks for the tips.

tasha roe - cute! i have a thing for flats! two weeks ago they had their bogo sale and i had a bday coupon for 20% off and forgot until it was over. boo

crystal - oh meg!…are you really going to make me shower and leave the house today for those ADORABLE grey flower shoes!! 🙂 i think i need them….but the chances of them having my size are slim…we shall see. 🙂

Julie - You DID score! Really cute, and I agree with your philosophy ~ shoes are happy!!

Ruth - oh those are so cute – all of them!! believe it or not payless was on my list for new york (classy, i know) but we never made it. enough damage done elsewhere though! yikes.

julia - the best thing about me was my feet – until I broke my little toe twice. Oh well.

Kimberlee J. - I had quit going there…looks like I need to get there! I love those gray rosettes.

Lori - Shoes are indeed happy. Nice choices. Now you’ll have warm CUTE tootsies.

Sasha Holloway - gotta love a good pair of shoes .. cute.

Sheralyn MacRae - shoes are fun unless you have size 11 or 12 feet then you are stuck with orthopaedic like shoes 😛

shauna - wow! all at payless!? score.
ps. i MAY have scored a little somethin’ for you yesterday….
i will email you 😉

Lisa - I love flats!! My husband is barely taller than me so I don’t wear heals ever cause I don’t want to tower over him! 🙂

Sonia - i love the red flats and gray rosette’s. too cute!

Susan - They all look great. Oh for the day when my bunnion did’t rule my feet.ha ha.

jeanne - I am going TOMORROW!!! Those ballet flats are my fav and the wool looking heels…thanks for the tip. I never go to Payless. Thanks again for making me spend money:-)

jennifer - I couldn’t agree more!

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stuff.

one year ago…..i wish it was that day today.
i could use a little rock today. 

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we painted our toes orange.

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um….yeah….i like patterns.

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did you know that mean and negative people are such a drag to be around.
don't be mean and negative, ok?
thanks.
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we had two campfires this weekend.
it almost makes me want to go camping…..almost.

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annie was talking to me about the days of the week.
she said "what comes after saturday? another saturday?"
i said "no…each day only happens one time each week"
and she said 
"but the song i gotta feelin' says…friday, saturday, saturday and sunday"

the black eyed peas are messing with her mind! 

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i love pam's cheesecake more than any other dessert.
it is my absolute favorite.
i could drink the batter from a glass.
like a cheesecake smoothie.

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it's not that funny but i think of it every time i have said "cool" since saturday.

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Courtney Walsh - I’ve been under a crazy deadline.
I missed your blog. 🙂

Trina McNeilly - I love you’re blog for posts like this…. all that pattern… yummy food, funny bits, etc. etc. hope you hare having a great wed. xoxoxo

Tracy Fisher - Funny you should mention “rock”… IF you have time, go to my website and look at the “reasons for rocks” entry @ http://www.tfisherart.com. I wish you could be at my party this Friday! I would love to paint you a rainbow rock someday. But maybe you’d rather have a good luck rock… or a rock of faith… or something that is just your own. Or maybe you could use this idea for one of your craft days with your own kids. My kids love to paint rocks! Happy Wednesday… may all of your wishes come true!! Tracy

Lisa - I love that your daughter knows that song!! My kids love to dance and listen to it! Also, I LOVE LOVE LOVE cheesecake!

Mary - I’ve been thinking about that cheesecake since the day you posted the recipe. I decided I would indulge myself and make it when I graduated from Graduate school. Well, I graduated in August and didn’t make it until today because I forgot! So, I’m glad you reminded me! And let me say…OH.MY.WORD. that was absolutely delicious! 😀
Thanks for the reminder and tell Pam thanks for the recipe!!!!

Lin - Don’t let the mean and negative people drag you down. I love your blog. Your photos make me feel better when the mean and negative people drag me down. Thanks Meg.

Lisa - Pretty cool post! Want, no…NEED that cheesecake. Yummy!

Tanya @ Life in 3D - Your toes are cute…
DON’t go camping…EVER…
I love all the patterns and the cuppa beside you…
Is that whipped cream on top of that cheesecake..for shiz?? I want it…NOW!

Amber Pamper - Such a cute pic of your bible studying!!! <3

jennifer - Well, the way I see it, you cancelled out the meanie with this cute and positive post. That cheesecake looks divine!!! Love the orange polish.

Nicolle W. - I love your blog. You ALWAYS put a smile on my face. Keep doing what you are doing. You inspire me and so do your photos.
Mean people are just useless. Go away!

Rach - The picture on the couch looks so comfy. Makes me just want to curl up with a good book and a nice hot chocolate and do nothing.

Kelly - I *want* that cheesecake! My toenails are orange too and it’s making me really happy. 🙂 Kelly

Lucylu ~ - Hello Meg,
Hey this is so the same on Saturday – Sunday we celebrated Jakes 14th birthday and we had cheesecake made by my mom and since i saw pumpkin in your blog post i would like to tell you we had pumpkin pie too.
*Lucylu*

april@gingerbreadgirlblog - I want some of that cheesecake!!! OOHHH MMMYYY!!!!!

alyssa - “the black-eyed peas are messing with her mind”
got a good chuckle out of that one.

Sara - Hi Meg, hope you are doing ok!!! Sometimes mean people just need a big hug. 🙂 It always throws them for a loop. ha ha. And it helps them snap out of it…

Lindsey - Cheesecake, yum.
Coffee, yum.
Nail color, awesome (do you know the brand/color name?)
All those colors and patterns, fun.

Brooke - WOw, I guess I didn’t realize that I had been reading your blog faithfully for so long….U2 seems so recent. In fact, whenever I think of a concert I want to go to, I think of U2…we were in Rome and they play at this beautiful place here. WE missed it by days….and I was so bummed!!
Hope all is well with you. I had a mean, not positive person experience today too..>BOO!

Kori - cheesecake smoothie? lemmee think, um….yes, please!! 😀

Valerie @ Chateau A La Mode - Hi Meg, love that you have campfires at home. I totally get what you mean about “almost” makes you want to go camping. I think about camping too and I “almost” want to go until I remember what camping is all about 😉

Courtney - Oh first off your blog makes me HAPPY! I was laughing out loud when I saw that you write in your bible as well. ha My grandmother always shakes her head when I open my bible with scribbles in it. I think it is the generation thing, right!?
Oh and the cheesecake you could send it to me I am not that far away!
*On another note I tried finding information regarding 31 bits and hosting a party, I couldn’t find anything. Will you email me please. Thanks!

Lisa - I’m with Annie…two Saturdays sounds just right to me!

Sarah@Clover Lane - If someone said something mean or negative to you, I will come and beat them up. (Except I probably will not be very good at that since I don’t workout regularly, or even sporadically. But it’s the thought that counts right?)
And you know how I feel about meanies and grouchies and jerkies.
And that pumpkin pie looks so good and that Annie is SO cute. The Black-eyes Peas mess with my mind too, because I swear every week we have two Saturdays around here.

traci in virginia - So glad you posted the SNL skit. I am home alone for a few minutes and it made me laugh out loud! Pretty Cool actually!!!
I made homemade cupcakes last night with homemade chocolate buttercream icing…I did eat the batter out of the bowl!!! So cheers to dessert batter out of a glass! 🙂
(Despite the fact that I am supposed to be counting points for Weight Watchers…oops)
Thanks for adding some happy to my day! No mean and negative here!!!

Kasey - Amen on the mean and negative people. They seem to be everywhere on Facebook lately. What a drag… But nothing that a large piece of cheesecake can’t fix, right? 🙂

Staci - Oh man you are sooo right about negative people!!! STAY AWAY DOWNERS!!!!!!!!! And um, YUM about the cheesecake….you KNOW I have to make that 🙂 My Mom’s birthday is this weekend…I’m thinking it’s perfect timing 🙂 And that Annie, once again….LOVE HER!!!!!!!!!

Dana D@BoysMyJoys - Mean & negative people are exhausting! 🙁
Cheesecake=YUM!
“Like…COOL”

Trish - oh.my.word. that cheesecake looks divine (i like to say divine it makes me feel sophisticated :)) Love your patterns… I am a pattern girl myself!
Just blast some U2 on your iPod and dance barefoot with your orange toes!

Lora - I, too, am sick of negativity! I will be positive, I will be positive, I will look on the bright side! and be thankful for this life we’re living! 🙂

elma riedstra - Yummmy cheesecake!! Negative people ugghh you for sure don’t need them in your life:) Have a wonderful day!!!

Laura Phelps - I LOVE ANNIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and I just got the girls polka dotted bedding and thought of you 🙂
and I finally mailed your birthday card yesterday

Cari - You could use a little rock today, huh? I live in Little Rock. LR would welcome you. Ha! That cheesecake. Oh, that cheesecake. Must. Make. It. Now…. 🙂

Becky @ Farmgirl Paints - i love pattern too…we’re cool like that. now why in the world did you have to show that cheesecake?? unbelievable!

Heather R. - Fudge stripe cookie crust…hurt me! I’m going to have to try that one! I’d be confused about the days of the week, too. Ha!

Kimberly - I love your pattern pic 🙂 AND, I love that you took your kids to U2. Will you adopt me and my gaggle? Pretty please?

Kylie - I just wanted to let you know that Target has polka dot cardigans! One is black with white polka dots, and the other a mauve color with white polka dots. I was there on Sunday, and they were on sale for $15. They are the Merona brand.

Melanie - Gotta love Annie!

Tracy - mmmmm that cheesecake makes me want to blow the diet that I just decided to start like a 1/2 hour ago….I could always start after the cheesecake…right?
Mean people stink…I am on a mission to rid my life of mean people…or at least not let them affect me so much.
Hope you have a happy day…eat some cheesecake ; )

julia - Aw, come on, who’s being mean and negative???
I like your socks.

Amber Ferrier - That cheesecake seriously just did something to me…I have to have it now!

Holly - Wow, that post was “Pretty Cool”. I could sure eat me some cheescake

linda@limein the coconut - Pretty cool…

Kat - Oh my kids just love that black eyed peas song atm, so I had to smile at what Annie said.
Mm, cheesecake!!!!!
Hope you find more positive and happy people to surround you than negative and mean ones for the rest of the week.

Peta - Oh how i heart your cake stand. And I could drink up some that batter too. Might just have to make one this week … Have a good day!

Gemma - Hi Meg!
I love your random posts and seeing what you’ve been up to..they’re my favourite!
Yummy Cheese Cake…lovely nails. Seeing that bonfire makes me want to do one this weekend…with s’mores : )
Gemma x

Keri ~ Forever Folding Laundry - I could dive right into that cheesecake right now. Seriously.
{That’s how I know I’ve stayed up too late – I start getting hungry again.} And I’d take that cup of coffee, too.
Love the orange. My toes are Halloween purple. 🙂

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