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His Safe Haven

when i went to Liberia in July my friend Pam said “hey… my friend christina is on the same flight as you! hook up with her”
i was nervous and tempted to say nothing at all.
but i was more nervous of the navigating the liberian airport by myself.
(if you have never experienced an airport in africa… it’s nearly impossible to describe the chaos)
SO… we texted in the airport in New York and there she was… my new friend.

she helped me survive the airport exit with out losing any bags to “helpers” because she is awesome.

she was in Liberia to check in on the foster homes that she runs with her organization called His Safe Haven.
halfway through the week she came and we visited all of the foster homes and met the kids.
what a blessing!

Later after being home a few months, Talby asked me if there was a way she could help in africa.
ummm…. YES!
we thought of different option & decided that maybe raising money for Christina’s organization would be a good way to help.
Talby wanted to do it on her own so i have put her fully in charge.
without further ado… Talby has the mic

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My name is Talby Duerksen.  I am 13 years old and Megan is my mom.  She is letting me use her blog to tell you about a group this is important to me.  It is called “His Safe Haven“, a group that strives to improve life for abandoned special needs children in Liberia.  Special needs children in Liberia are often abandoned because their families do not think they have any worth. When I learned that I felt very sad.  His Safe Haven finds foster home for the children that are brought to them.  I have enjoyed loving children with special needs, being with them and making them smile.  I realized there so many children who are in need in so many ways.  I have all I need, plus much more, but those kids don’t.  So I asked my mom if we could start a fundraiser to help the kids at His Safe Haven.  I emailed Christina and asked her lots of questions that i had about Liberia and her program.

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This is Christina and her family.

 

Talby: What made you want to start His Safe Haven?
Christina: We adopted from Liberia in 2007.  Our Josiah was 7 months old at the time and does not have a right hand.  We thought this was the only special need he had.  (In Liberia, because of the lack of good medical training and facilities, they lack in being able to diagnose children with special needs). After Josiah came home, we noticed that he wasn’t progressing.  He was soon diagnosed with Quadraplegia Cerebral Palsy.  He may never walk or talk.  We were very devastated at this news, but he was our son and we would love him no matter what.  I then started learning the awful realities for children like Josiah in Liberia.  Many children with special needs were tossed away like garbage, left to die in the bush (jungle), abandoned at police stations, hospitals, neighbors, etc.  The families that choose to try and raise their child with a special need, have very few resources or help.  There is 1 therapy center in the whole country.  There is lack of trained doctors to help families, and very little assistive equipment to help a child.  A lot of the culture believes that most of the children are considered to be a curse and will bring a curse on the whole family if they don’t get rid of the child.  Many communities will shun a family because of their child.  I wanted to help in some way, so I started training a few foster mothers on how to care for an abandoned child with a special need, how to do basic therapy, help them eat properly, etc.   I started traveling back to Liberia in 2008. God blessed me with the vision in 2010, of building a whole village of foster homes, school, therapy, etc.  Then His Safe Haven was born!

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T:  Since you live in the US, how do you check in with the foster parents back in Africa?

C:  I travel to Liberia every 3 months to check in with my team and foster moms and evaluated all the children.  I usually do ongoing training every trip and bring much needed supplies.  I also talk on the phone with Josephus in Liberia (he is my Program Coordinator), and text a lot to check in daily!

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T: Do the foster parents have to be women?C: For now, we have some woman that are married with their own children, some single womand and are moving more toward employing widows.
T: Are your own children a part of His Safe Haven?C: Our 5 children at home are a huge part of HSH by allowing me to do work at home, being responsible while I travel to Liberia and help out their dad a lot.  They help with fundraisers when we have them, and always are willing to help when needed.


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T:  How many kids are at the foster home?C:  20…We have 13 boys and 7 girls.
T:How do you find all of the foster children?
C: Most of the children are either abandoned at our doorsteps, or brought into our program through the Liberian government because they were abandoned and left on someone else’s doorstep.


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T:  When you find a child, what is the process that you go through to put them into a foster home? 

C: No matter how a child is placed into our program, we must notify the government, who then sends a social worker out to try and locate and/or document the child’s history.   They interview all our foster moms to make sure the are equipped to care for the children, then we get a ‘Child Placement’ form to make the placement official.  This helps the government keep track of the abandoned children and monitor their care under His Safe Haven.  We try and find a ‘Child Sponsor’ for each Haven Child that will help fund the cost for caring.   Our Sponsorship Coordinator then will send quarterly updates or pictures to each sponsor to keep them updated on ‘their’ sponsored child.   

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T:  What are your plans for His Safe Haven in the future?

C:  Our plans are to build a whole community to enrich the lives of all children abandoned and with a special need.  There is a lot of information on our website hissafehaven.org  about the community plans.
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T: What is one way we can help you at His Safe Haven with donations?
C: We value any donation but if you wanted a specific project…  another big need is house rent.  We rent all our homes at $75/month for 6 months at a time.  We have found that renting our homes gives the kids a safer environment.  Our moms that are willing to be trained are on the extreme poverty level, so they typically have dirt floors and no good access to clean drinking water, and are typically in very dirty areas.  So this is why we must rent our homes.  Raising money to help with this cost would be wonderful.
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After hearing about the need for renting homes for the kids, my mom and I set a goal to raise enough money for all the homes for one year.
6 foster homes at $75 a month = $5400

Any amount you donate will make a difference.   🙂

 

Please CLICK HERE to go to my Crowd Rise Fundraising page to Donate.
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ALL the money will go directly to His Safe Haven.

 

I am excited to be able to help all the kids at HSH.  I dream about getting to travel to Liberia with my mom and getting to meet Christina & all the kids she helps.  But until I get to go I want to help where I can.  Thanks for reading this and for donating!

Thank you for your support to His Safe Haven!

– Talby
**** this is MEG again… Just wanted to say how inspired i was by Christina’s work in Liberia.  She is a mother of five and didn’t let that stop her from helping in a BIG way.  And many years since she began they are very close to moving their family to Liberia! They will create a beautiful community together with their foster moms, the children they care for and SO MANY other Liberians.  I can not wait to go back and see how their program grows!  They will bring joy to so many special needs kids!! It’s already awesome and it’s just going to get better! ****

 

UPDATE: See the giveaway on THIS POST that is for anyone who donates to HSH.  🙂

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Carrie - Such an awesome goal! Very well written and worthwhile! I pray you are able to reach and exceed your goal!

Flower Patch Farmgirl - Hey Talby! I just read your post and I wanted to thank you for caring so much for the world around us. It’s so much easier to close our eyes and say it’s not our problem but you know it IS our problem. God is using your heart to change other hearts… And lives! I can’t wait to help.

Melissa - Talby, you are an inspiration! We are happy to support this endeavor. I know this is just the beginning!

Lola - YOU are awesome Miss Talby! I’m happy to donate and follow along on your journey! Your mom kinda rocks too! Lola

Lori - Way to go, Talby!

Renee - This is so awesome! It is a great thing to see a young person care about something so noble. Good luck!

Andrea - “Whatsoever you do for the least of my people, that you do unto me.”

Good work Talby! I was happy to respond to your request to help.

Lynette L. - Thanks so much for the opportunity to give. When you and your mom are traveling back to Africa (HSH), I would love to help send you – if you will have a fundraiser for that, please let me know.

stephanie ackerman - Way to go Talby and momma <3 YOU all make this world a better place <3

Chris - Talby this is such a wonderful thing you’re doing. I’m glad I could help out. Thanks for giving these sweet kids a voice. Wish I could go there and hug each one of them.

Carol S. - This is such a tender and ambitious heart for Talby. I am in, thanks for the opportunity and God bless these children and their helpers.

Michelle from Australia - God Bless you Talby, Meg and of course, Christina. My husband and I have two children 🙂 And they both have special needs 🙁 I know what it is like to be a special kids Mum and that is in a first world country like Australia. Thank you for giving kids who DESERVE a voice a platform on which to speak.

Grandma Ranney - Talby – Very proud of you! I’m sure you will meet your goal.

Pam - Talby,
This is such a wonderful thing you are doing. Thanks for letting me be a small part of it.
God Bless
Pam

amy jupin - talby, keep up the good work! proud of you!

Maureen - Well done Talby!!! “I have all I need, plus much more…”, isn’t that the TRUTH for most of us. Just dontated.

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